me exboyfriend was my first sexual relationship and it was always everytime amazing!!! i loved it, but me and my current boyfriend have'nt yet have intercourse and i have the whole time in my head this idea that its not gonna be what i want it to be or lets say i dont know what to expect when it is going to happen i keep thinking it is going to be unsatisfying why is that so help please????
2006-07-20 23:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your first was special because he was your first.
Each is different.
Sex is better when both truly love and care for each other.
2006-07-21 00:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you think to much. Honestly, give him a chance. You may as well end it now, because with that attitude, you probably won't allow yourself to enjoy it anyway. Men all have 1 thing in common, we can't read minds. If you want good sex with your new boyfriend, first forget about the old one. Second, learn to be open, and the sex will be amazing. when my wife and I were dating, some of our first experiences were downright awkward. But after open communication, and a willingness to try new things, and/ or put the other partner first, we now have the most amazing sex, each and every time. I also think you may be giving the previous guy too much credit. If he was your first, you don't have much to compare with. I have found that sex is always best when it is making love, and I regret having ever had sex before my wife.
2006-07-21 07:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by DBP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you must allready be unsatisfied with him but no matter what you always have the power to make it satisfieing 1 woman can get 20 guys off butt 1 man can not get 20 women off. if you look at something and pull out the bad things then what do you have?/ a bad thing . if you pull out all the good things then what do you have? a good thing. if you pull out all the wonderfull things then what do you have? by the way why did you break up with your ex
2006-07-21 06:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by hthammond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is hard to get over the person you had your first sexual experience with. You will compare everyone else to that person. I am sure your current b/f will do a good job. If he doesn't you can always take control and be on top.
2006-07-21 06:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Maybe you aren't attracted to him that way, or maybe it's just fear. Don't do anything until you feel ready to do it, then give it awhile, the first few times normally aren't that good if two people are very nervous and not experienced with each other's bodies.
2006-07-21 06:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about what was and pay attention to what is,some people click naturally to each other and some need to tell their partners what they like and don't like.If you really want to be with him everything will work out fine,once it does you'll begin to think less about your first lover.Just take your time,don't rush it.
2006-07-21 06:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always think the first is the best cause you have no one to compare it to so you never know your current bf may be better then your ex
2006-07-21 06:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by Cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a woman/girl/female it's because women/girls/females are never satisfied
2006-07-21 06:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by bakbiter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your shy
2006-07-21 06:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋