Been with the guy 2 years lived together for 7 months and lately he's got really selfish when it comes to sex.
All hes interested in is his own pleasure. He has never been like this before. Tried talking about it but he's having none of it,so right now he's on "booty lockdown" (doesnt seem to be workin)
Any suggestions?
2006-07-20 23:46:51 · 12 answers · asked by carly s 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay - a little risky but I guarantee at least partial success. Ask him to come in the bedroom, that you want to show him something. When he gets in there - SHOW him what you want. Pleasure yourself in front of him and don't let him touch you until you want him too. Tell him that's what keeps you turned on and that's what you want/need - then grab his hand and let him do it for you before he gets any pleasure. The visual stimulation will knock his socks off and he'll want to do more than just think about himself..... Good Luck!
2006-07-20 23:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right wll then all you gotta do is tell him he can sleep on the sofa until he thinks about what youve said. No intimacy, no sex not even a cuddle until he realises that its a game of two halves.
If he aint playing ball and u have tried talking to him, just back off and let him stew. If he loves you he will come round. If he is seriously thinking about the relationship on another level it maybe that he is looking elsewhere.
2006-07-20 23:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to him and get to the root of the problem. Booty lockdown is not the answer - why should your needs suffer just because of him. It is a relationship and you should be able to communicate with him. Choose your timing carefully - approach it correctly and he will respond. You know him - you will know when to talk to him.
Good luck
2006-07-20 23:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you wanna try summat new. Tie him to the bed and ride him like a cowgirl til your spent. Give him a bit of his own medicine!
Good luck!
2006-07-20 23:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by xXMichelleXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chuck him and find someone who actually wants to give you pleasure.
2006-07-21 09:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Rotifer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to knock him on the head!
2006-07-20 23:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by tigerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him either shape up or ship out... There are others who do care...
2006-07-21 00:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship has problems that are not just sex related.
solve them or plan your split carefully.
2006-07-21 00:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try fondling him a lot, if that does not work then try a second choice
2006-07-20 23:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is getting bored ditch him.
2006-07-20 23:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋