2006-07-20 22:49:48 · 14 answers · asked by gapdiaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my advice :
1) If you got children :
DO NOT start having an affair with him/her!
Your spouse will find out , you'll feel terrible and dirty ,
he/she may take your kids , you'll destroy your kids ...
2) if you don't have children:
First divorce and then do whatever you like ...
2006-07-20 22:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, I need to correct you. I don't think you can just meet somebody and then come to realise that you love him/her more than your spouse. At least if you had said you meet somebody and then realise that s/he is in fact your better perfect match than your current spouse. Now, I wouldn't even imagine that such a realisation would pull somebody away from hi/her love towards his/her spouse. If indeed there is love binding the two of you, then such is just one of the obstacles you need to meet in the course of your marriage life. Just imagine how many marriages would have broken down if such factors were anything to go by? It's love that keeps the two bound together even through hardships!
2006-07-20 23:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to my bf. he was with this girl who got preg. 3 months after dating.. he thought she loved her and she loved him but she was cheating on him the whole time. once the baby ws born there was still conflicts in the relationship. he thought the right thing to do was marry her. they were married before the baby was born and a yr later on the babys bday the mother left him and the baby for the guy she was havign an affair with. why give some1 their promises if they are not gonna be fufilled? im sry but now my bf his happily in love with me and is happy he isnt with that skank nemore
she messed up his life terribly
2006-07-20 23:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by alicia b. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's definately a sign that something is not right with the marraige, which doesn't mean that you should automatically go and start a relationship with this person. Try and sort out what's going on in your head and more importantly, why this is happening!
2006-07-21 00:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ana T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may just like the idea of this person, (its happened to me before), most likely its just infatuation, which if you eventually look at the picture, you will forget about this person, maybe not now, but eventually. - guarantee. unless you still feel this way in like a couple years, then you need to do something about it.
2006-07-21 00:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by starbucks_girl37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time.. and see if you feel the same way in a year or so.. if it last it might be meant to be.. but until then I would not abandon the love I knew I had..
2006-07-20 22:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So bad to know that ;you are not smart enough?You do not know what is True Love ......sad .don't you......? If yes ;you know what is True Love , you will not love once more. That is True Love ? Why ?
Give yourself a chance to use your brain to deep thought . What is True Love
2006-07-20 23:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jason Koh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh oh no. too bad you still should stick with your hushband/wife cause it might not work out with that new partner and what's gonna happen to you? your a$$ out
2006-07-20 22:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by Koran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAREFUL. WHAT MEANS THE MOST TO YOU THE NEW LOVE OR THE ONE YOU ALREADY KNOW?????? THIS NEW LOVE MAY NOT LAST THEN WHERE WILL YOU BE?? THINK ABOUT IT!
2006-07-20 22:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by cowboyskid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love many different people at different times in your life,however, you got married for a reason...REMEMBER THAT REASON???
2006-07-20 22:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋