i seen to notice alot that when you see 2 guy men they are more critisied and when you see women its "okay" i have nuthing against either i would just like to here some of your thoughs or experiences!
2006-07-20 22:17:30 · 19 answers · asked by crystal l 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
lesbians turn men on, gay men don't turn anyone on
2006-07-20 22:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Two women together are heterosexual man's sexual fantasy! So they will never try to say anything against two women being together, also a lot of heterosexual women feel more comfortable with the same sex as it is, so it's a little easier to be accepted. For gay men, it is very difficult for acceptance because society has put men on this pedestal, to where men have to be strong, and take care of the woman and her family, society has made men feel like women are dispensable in some sense, even though it's not okay to be a gay man. Also many men on are the down low and they claim to be violently homophobic, and the only reason why is because they were taught to hate gays, but when they look at another gay man, they are basically looking at themselves in the mirror. People need to get the hell over it and realize that we put here on this earth for Love, and that's all that should matter!
2006-07-21 01:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only the "pretty" lesbians together are accepted (by the way it's ACCEPTED not EXCEPTED. Excepted means "to exclude" like "except that one" ACCEPTED means to "to include in a group, or be liked amongst your peers") Because I GUARANTEE you, guys feel the same way about butch(masculine) lesbians as they do about gay men. I think they see it as a threat to their masculinity and are intimidated, but they think two "pretty" lesbians together is ok, because of the high level of femininity, there is no threat to their masculinity, and also straight men think a "pretty" lesbian is more easily persuaded to go straight and have a "threesome" than a REAL lesbian who DOES only sleep with women. Trust me, it pisses me off when a REAL lesbian rejects them. Men like "pretty" lesbians because they can see themselves in the equation.
btw, use spell check. It's "seem" to notice, not "seen", "criticize" not critisied..it's "nothing" not nuthing, and there's so many grammatical errors in your typing it's giving me a headache.
2006-07-20 23:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am 100% straight but the thought of seeing two women do it seems OK. But I have seen tv shows where there are 2 men doing it. And it even seems painful dont know I just dont like to see men do it.
2006-07-20 22:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are more excepted because many men think it's perfectly normal, but they freak at the ideal of 2 men, which I find really hot. It also has to do with what society has set up as acceptable.
2006-07-21 07:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men are vile beings that need sick fantasies to help them get it up! And to be completely honest maybe if they were not so perverted they would be just as smart as us women!
And maybe they wouldn't be so insecure if they didn't think with their package 20 times a minute!
2006-07-20 22:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by twit4luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men think it's playing up to their fantasies or because as straight men they can understand the attraction to women.
2006-07-21 01:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Chez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight men are turned on by lesbians, which reinforces the sexuality.
Homophobes are turned on by gay men,which challenges the sexuality.
Tammi Dee
2006-07-21 02:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a lesbian and am engaged to my girlfriend of 2 years and where I live we get constant abuse off people of all ages. People say that Britain is accepting gay people, let me tell you that is a smoke screen. I live in fear and suffer from intimidation because of peoples ignorance.
2006-07-20 22:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by bendy spoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesbians are definatly more accepted, and the reason for that is very simple. Lesbians are woman, which if you think about it more women in general are accepting of other humans and their lifestyles whatever that may be. men areinsecure and cocky, one problem with men is that they think everyone wants them, so they assume that when gay men are around they think that they are being done in the butt by this guy and they are not comfortable with that thought. with that men accept lesbians to them because most men are not intimadated by women, so they think it is something hot they can just think about while they play with themselves. and i think even more then the whole cocky aspect of the situation men are also men so they know they are being checked out by gay men, because men check out everyone. even if you are the fattest nastiest most buck totthed butterface just know you are being checked out, its like seeing something that scares the **** out of you, you look even though it may scare the hell out of you, so this all ends with the fact that straight men know they are being checked out by gay men weather they like it or not, and if insecure with themselves in the slightest bit, it makes them question their own sexuality, which pisses them off, which makes them reject what is happening to them the best way they can, by hating the "*** that checked them out. so to be a lesbian there is a higher percentage of woman who accept lesbians then gay men, and men have a higher percentage of acceptance with gay women then men and thus my explination as to why lesbians are more accepted then gay men.
2006-07-20 22:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Advice Whore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe it is because most mens fantasies are to see two women together, and... if you think about it (yes they are both the same), although, think about two women having sex... now... two men... see the difference?(pain)
2006-07-20 22:30:36 · answer #11 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋