do u think i should divorce her?

Question

i am a married man of 10 years, i got 1 kid but i dont know wot to do about my wife.she seems to flirt with other guys more and more, im sure she sleeps with few of them while i am at work.the other day i found my next door neighbours socks in our bedroom under the bed, i know for sure she is cheating on me, so .pls help as im very confussed in wot to do?

Answer 1

Get a spy camera in your bedroom catch and confront her. If you want to stay with her it will be her job to gain your trust.

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Answer 2

well this is a simple question man. the answers not want to hear but if ur sure she is cheating u should dump her. she is not respecting u when ur at work working hard. then what is going through ur mind at work u know. u dont need that right. if there is guys socks in ur house and there not urs then obiiviously she cheating u. dont matter if its the neighboor or another guy. no socks should be there. so do what a smart guy would do and divorce her. still im sure really want to know so why not spy on her and c. she not being true to u so why shound u. tell her u have to work and then just spy if u can. its not wrong cuz she making u do this. sad she would do that to u but she needs to go. no matter how much u love her ok be strong and good luck

Answer 3

Does a spouse needs 10 years to cheat or flirt? Divorce is not an easy action or excuse to solve the problem. Either one of you are confuse.
If you really think she is having a fun time outside, get a P.I. and conduct check on her. This is one of the best method to get the truth about your suspicion.
One do not leave sock under the bed, they leave stain on the bed.

Answer 4

10 years is a long time. You have no real proof as of yet so take this opportunity to talk to her. She may just be having feelings due to a lack of something she needs in the relationship. You may be lucky enough to tweak your relationship and have a happy marriage before any real damage has been done. If you find she has cheated on you then she is just trifling...you will not be doing your child a favor by staying in that marriage unfortunately.

Answer 5

You need concrete proof first. I believe there is only one reason for a divorce in the bible and that is infidelity. Once someone has crossed a line like that, it will never be the same, the trust will be gone, and cheaters have a tendency to repeat their crimes over and over. If I found concrete proof, I would file proceedings for divorce. I tried forgiveness once in my life, it is never the same again.

Answer 6

Adultry is the only reason a man may divorce.. Ask her straight up, and don't be shy. Look her in the eye, and when she answers you; you will know if it is true... Be sure to get a lawyer, and take that kid with you: you don't want your kid growing up with an amoral tramp!!

Answer 7

Two things you can do in this matter. 1, kick out of your life, and seek someone new. 2, just tell your neighbor to do your wife, help out and cut the gress in the front yard and, not drink your beer in the frig.

Answer 8

Women love to flirt, especially with guys that do not have socks on.

Answer 9

are you sure she is cheating?Or is just a suspicious mind?I would make sure that she is cheating first,then sit her down and find out if you are doing something to cause this.Its been a fact that cheaters man or woman will keep cheating.Divorce her if you can't work things out.

Answer 10

if you can handle it stay with her at least for the boys sake, and do the same have you heard of adult friend finder? and there are many other sites that you can find a partner to have a good time with.