What if you have a very best cousin and you put your trust to her and you helped her . But one day you have just find out that she just used you after your help.she just put you to shame too.What will you do to her?
2006-07-20 20:41:41 · 12 answers · asked by MAGNIFICENT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd confront her and let the family know how wonderful she is!!
2006-07-20 20:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the better person. Maybe she is just immature. I was really let down by my aunt a while ago and now the entire family hates her. If you play it cool she may eventually see how stupid she was. You can't change ppl, they have to change themselves. Try to keep a relationship with her b/c she is your cousin afterall, but I wouldn't trust her again.
2006-07-21 03:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you have that problem,I would stay away from the cousin,but I would do nothing to them,It would only put you in their class.Just let this be a lesson to you,now that you know you can't trust them.
2006-07-21 03:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by ken m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let her know that the reason you helped her is because that you have chosen you side with her. You helped her because you considered she's your family, doesn't matter what she does, you would always be on her side.
Im sure it will make her feel guilty that she put you to shame and eventually she will make it up for you.
2006-07-21 03:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me and I told her how I felt about it, told her that I forgive her and love her, but she'd best never do it again. She was more shamed than I was for what she put me through. We've done great since!
2006-07-21 03:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of my cousins are way older than me and way too mature to do that. my only cousin who i know would do that i hardly talk to and dont really like anyway. this probaly doesnt help. sorry
2006-07-21 03:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by predictable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't do anything physically that will get you in trouble.
Just treat her like the plague until she dies. Don't associate with her, if she's in trouble, too bad. Treat her like the nothing she really is on the inside.
2006-07-21 03:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by thatwench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing... You put your trust in her... You made a mistake..
Keep away... and may friends outside of the family circle....
Good luck...
2006-07-21 03:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'll talk to her directly to let her know that I'm very up set
2006-07-21 03:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Push D'Button 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wouldn't be my 'very best cousin' anymore.
I wouldn't help her ever again. That's all.
2006-07-21 03:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋