u married her after a greet love story & having anice time with each ather & all of sudden u know that she sleeping with some one
2006-07-20 19:50:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would most definitely, feel betrayed. To have some one you love, "cut out" your heart, is personally devastating. In my opinion, such and act is unforgivable.
2006-07-20 19:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by PAIN23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would imagine you would feel hurt, angry, betrayed, and sad all at the same time.
The question here is: What now?
Do you keep her and try to work things out, or do you show her the door?
You need to calm down, talk to her, find a quiet place to calm down again because it's not going to be a pleasant conversation. Don't do anything stupid that you're going to regret for the rest of your life, like beating her or worse. Be calm, and be a man about it. You don't hit women (or worse).
After you've found your quiet place, then you need to start soul searching, and ask yourself if you still love her enough to forgive her for her indiscretion and take her back.
If you do take her back just make it clear that if she pulls this little stunt again, then it's good-bye and don't let the door hit you in the a** on the way out!
Best of luck to you. Hope it all works out for the best.
2006-07-21 03:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OoOoOo....Touchy subject...But ok. First things first. Your women, like all women have a CONSTANT need to be loved. If she does not get that flaming, like u rilly mean it love, like she is the greatest thing since...sliced bread, well, then shes gonna go find it somewhere else. The point is....somewhere in your relationship she feels she is not getting enough. For most guys idk about u but, most of us, when we find something we like we hold on to it...and that is a problem because everyday is different, things change and we must change in ways too, but for the good. I know u must be angry but if u rilly want her u gotta put ur pride in the back seat and show her the MAN that u are. Her man, do things that make her proud to be your wife instead of the other way around. Marriage is mutual, both ways, try to look at things thru her eyes too...that shows that u listen to her when she speaks.
2006-07-21 03:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by bassbum_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not love. If it were a great love story it wouldn't end like this. You need to move on as hard as it may be. Do you really deserve to be with someone who doesn't respect you're relationship enough to be faithful? Have some respect for your self because she obviously doesn't have any for you. I'm sure there is someone else out there that is willing to create a true love story with you. This was just practice for the real love of your life!
2006-07-21 02:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by andrea b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you didn't get married because of sex. Because married people (usually) make a family. This means your spouse is now a family member. And you wouldn't have sex with a family member, now would you? Yuck. That's incest! So, he/she needs to get his/her sex from somewhere else. Let him/her. If he/she truly loves you and wants to be a family member, he/she will not leave. Just out getting a "massage".
Now, if you weren't planning on starting a family, you should not have gotten married. Just keep her as a girlfriend (you can still be in love) and you'll continue to have sex until you break-up.
2006-07-21 02:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your wife you're talking about, good for her. You're a loser and you should be glad she's getting something good from someon, cuz she's sure not gonna get it from an idiot like you.
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2006-07-21 02:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel heart broken but since I'm a very nice guy I would let it go but never see her again. But if I was not I would make her pay big time.
2006-07-21 02:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel terribly hurt if this happened to me. Being unfaithful is not the way to go. Communication is important so you know if this has really happened and if it is something that can be worked out.Ouch!
2006-07-21 02:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if youre not ready to LEAVE her then go screw someone else and let her find out about it(that is if your sure she is doing it to you) and if you dont want to do that then just simply pack your **** and leave
2006-07-21 02:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you want to be with her while she is doing this. If she's cheating now, she will continue to do it.
2006-07-21 04:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋