2006-07-20 19:37:05 · 8 answers · asked by wizard402006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Work it out. Period.
2006-07-20 19:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good CHRISTIAN marriage counselor...not some preacher, but an actual trained LICENSED professional who has God in focus. This person can help you work out the problems, get to the root of the issues, and steer you in the right direction. Divorce is the LAST alternative, and should NEVER be considered unless there is abuse. It sounds like divorce is not really an option because you openly admit you still love your mate. Go find help, then find each other...again!!! You will be amazed at how much stronger your relationship can become. But first and foremost, find GOD!!! He can help you through all of it. In the meantime, everyone involved, you, your spouse, your children, you ALL need help, because this issue is effecting more than just the husband and wife. It will help you answer questions not only for yourselves, but for those you love who love you both. Once the "I do's" take place the "I don't anymore" should NEVER be an option. There's always hope as long as you are both alive...so get the help you need before you make a mistake you'll regret for the rest of your life.
2006-07-21 02:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by godslovelyrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this even a question... if neither of you want to file for divorce... then what is there to ask. Someone needs to swallow their pride, go back, and work it out. Divorce is not always the best answer. Think about all the good times, maybe things just got away and the mutual respect was lost.... that can all be repaired if someone really wanted to give it a go and change themselves. Good Luck
2006-07-21 02:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your partner and discuss why they do not want to file for divorce. It's possible your partner still has feelings as well. Maybe you both need to take a break from each other, try new things, seek councelling, start dating again like you did in the beginning. Communication is the key. Good Luck and I hope your marriage is able to be saved.
2006-07-21 02:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been married, and how old are you? Lots of answers here would make allot of difference. Been married for 32 yrs, and be there done that, and the best thing i can tell you is talk, lots of talk. When you don't talk, things get worse. Go to counseling, or try church? Things worth saving, are things worth keeping i always say. Feelings for him?, how about feelings for you? Love, honor, and obey, we forget about what we promise each other as time goes by., and we should never do that!
2006-07-21 02:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by twanda_C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then, why is the option for divorce an issue?
2006-07-21 02:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get some counseling and see if ya can work it out!good luck!
2006-07-21 02:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by hshellraiser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were is the issue
2006-07-21 02:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋