We are married at present for 4 years and in our early 30's, however in this time we have not made love since we got married. we have talked about this and she says she doesn't love me in that way, just like brother and sister. I on the other hand do care about her alot as a husband should and do not want to divorce her. But after having a long coversation she has made her mind up. It seems there is no way to change it. She says she doesn't want anything from me and that we could still live in the same house (we just bought it) although I can keep it.
2006-07-20 19:32:19 · 14 answers · asked by rodeo_rider73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think you should live in the same house, you should sell the house and split proceeds unless she really doesn't want anything from you. Move on, you are both young and it obviously isn't working out so you should both find someone you are more compatible with sexually
Good luck
2006-07-20 20:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 8⤊ 2⤋
yes to begin with there are promises of "i don't want this and you can have that " when Friends and family's get involved in another month or so time it all changes ! they will advice you both to get what you can , there is no doubt in my mind that it will turn into a typical break up ...
i couldn't stay there either .
you feel relieved that you've finally talked about whatever the problem has been that you've felt for the last few months at the moment , but when that mask of good feeling fades it all turns to dust and your solicitors will want you to fight for whats yours , if your married and no kids and both names on that house your entitled to 50 /50 . are you telling me shes willing for you to have her share !!! may be now but that will change ...
you think if your house is worth 150 grand the odds are you've made money on it already your talking quite a few grand if you sold and the longer you sit in it together the more valuable it becomes and the less mortgage you have . good luck but don't leave things to chance be ready to defend your self if you need too ,.x
2006-07-20 19:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by j.j. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
I have no idea how, but my brother who is a total cheating b@stad of the worst kind has managed it TWICE!!!
I just don't get it? he has been a total b@stad to these two wonderful women and then after a few years of constant not stop cheating, they agree to a friendly and amicable divorce. WTF?
They guy sleeps with porn stars, goes out on week long benders at S&M clubs he it completely self absorbed and should NEVER be in a long term relationship, yet he has all these women falling for him and he cannot say no! yet his previous wives are all, let's be friends. No he's not handsome, No he's not rich, no he's not hung like a well endowed bull either, but he gets hot and I mean HOT women throwing themselves at him all the frickin time.
Whatever his secret is, he should bottle it and sell it, he would become a billionnaire!
and no I am NOTHING like him, I think I got all the faithfull genes in my family.
2006-07-20 21:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by kenhallonthenet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go your separate ways why you have the chance!before she changes her mind and wants half of everything!and yes there are easy divorces,my wife and her ex didn't want anything from each other except to be away from the other ,so the divorce was done and over in less then a month.so if she's willing to let you off the hook this easy you better take it while you can!good luck!
2006-07-20 20:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by hshellraiser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something doesn't make sense here you live together but don't sleep together so you've decided to divorce so you can live together and not sleep together , i think the problem is you love your wife to much and its suffocating her , she wants you to rebel , throw the TV through the window go out and get blind drunk and tell her you've had enough , it will probably ignite the spark that's missing .
2006-07-20 19:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can have an ammicable divorce.. as long as u can both compromise on the divorce terms there shouldnt be any ill will or hateful feelings involved..
2006-07-20 19:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh ya , if both of u r ready , y not , just do a fair bargain and separate your ways , maybe you r not made for each other
2006-07-20 19:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by parinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then let her go, if you dont the resentment will build more and itll hurt you both more in the long term
2006-07-20 23:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by ken m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unheard of, and of course it's possible... but take care.. it's highly unlikely that it will stay that way...
2006-07-20 20:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by engineer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iv never seen it!
2006-07-20 19:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋