Due date was yeterday. I have a 1 1/2 yr old daughter that I chase aaround the house up and down the stairs all day. Even when my BF gets home I never ask him to look after her. She would not take a nap all day today and haad been a handful. The house is always pretty much clean (especially for having a 1yr old) and I try to make dinner and even cook lunch every other day. I walked around so much today that my feet were so swollen that when I walked on them they felt like they would burst. The BF has never even given me a back rub during this pregnancy....Ihave rubbed his back though. I have been through a lot during this pregnancy, even dealing with some physco chick he neglecting myself and his daughter for, for 4 months and she wore on my care and I ahve been going to court about it for months. Mind you ...met him at 16 and this is our 10th year. Anyhow, tonight I turned on the central Air and it is as if I turned it on to dry my toenails or something. He just about through a fit.
2006-07-20 19:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by raindrop_110880 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am having the hardest time sleeping and breathing at night and tonight I need the sleep after our daughter would not nap today. I don't ask for anything for myself around here. Having a few hours of AC is like my splurge for the month.It can't be a money thing. We do pretty well and even though I stay at home I bring in my own income and contribute to the houshold from my savings. I typically buy all the baby stuff for our daughter and the baby on the way.The phsyco chick has to do with one of the major things I have had to deal with during this pregnancy and yet I never have taken him away from our daughter (both children are his) and I don't try to make him suffer for any of the crap I have gone through because of him, but yet I cant get some ******* A/C to help me sleep better tonight. Am I just being hormonal or is he wrong?
2006-07-20 19:43:31 · update #1
He will help with household stuff if I ask him to, but I am fine trying to kepp the house together. He has been moping the floors since I physically can't. The only thing I want from him is some compassion and understanding and to not have to explain to him why I need certain things becuase I am pregnant.
2006-07-20 20:07:49 · update #2
as for the c/a...i would tell him to G>F>H>S......and for the other part ...as far as getting help from him.....hahaha get used to it...you aint gettin any help....this is your full time job...get used to it....
2006-07-20 19:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like the BF is much help. If you think you want him around, you will continue to be frustrated unless you can sit down together and work out a way that he can start contributing to the household responsibilities. If he is willing but clueless, it could help just making a list together of ways he can help. Things are only going to get more stressful for you with the newborn, if he doesn't start giving you some support. Good luck.
2006-07-21 02:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by surlygurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off what does this physco chick and court have to do with anything. Is this guy the father of your first child also? Well if after ten years and one child and another on the way and he as not mentioned marriage then he wont. You need to leave him, you do not need that ****. He does not care now and never will. Bets are he is cheating on you and once this baby is born he is gonna be gone. But you need to beat him to it and be gone first. Who will care for you other child while your in hospital having this one. Find someone now to take your other child so she will be safe and well cared for. While you are in the hosp. have family and friend remove your things from the place your living. I am sure they will let you live with them till you find a place. But do not tell your boyfriend or have him around when moving. Your children comes first. and if you are to stay with this man then you are neglecting your children and social service will step in and remove your children and you could loose your kids for ever.....
2006-07-21 02:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what you are asking but i will say that i wish that you could be in a much better situation i think most men under estimate how a women feels when she is pregnant and they still exspect the baby treatment from you to them. i am lucky and have a supporting husband and father but i really suggest you tell him to help or hit the road because you dont need the stress of taking care of a third child HIM
2006-07-21 02:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by moonlilystar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the dick. Being a single parent isn't the end of the world. You would be much more happier and be able to do whatever you wanted to do. Tell him to **** off
2006-07-21 02:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by rnaddoug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack his suitcase, and tell him to get his miserable asss out of your house. He screwed around on you, and he treats you like dirt and you still let him near your kids. Honey, you are better off without him.
2006-07-21 02:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your question is what exactly?
It does sound like you need a different b/f though. What a loser.
2006-07-21 02:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a crappy night. Sorry to hear bout it!
2006-07-21 02:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by mathwhiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋