Is he even worth it?

Question

like a year ago me and my frined started getting together and now were like nothing since the summer started. i cry alot now beucase i miss him. and when i try to talk to him it last like a few minutes.and he barely wants to hangout. only when its good for him. what should i say to him to maybe make him relize that hes a jerk for doing this. or how shuld i get over him , beucase it seems like i never can

Answer 1

People change, dump him. If he is worth it, he will pursue you.

Answer 2

There are two keys to a successful romantic relationship:

1)finding a relationship that WORKS: it lifts you up, makes you feel stronger than you are, helps you through the tough spots, makes you want to give to your friends and family and

2)finding a person that you LIKE where the relationship works.


If you do not have #1, the romantic relationship will never be a success. YOU DO NOT HAVE THIS. Please move on. The great danger in relationships is teaching yourself the bad habit of continually looking for a "good" relationship in the middle of one that is obviously bad. This one is bad. Don't teach yourself to make exceptions and thereby blind yourself to what is good and what is bad.

Get out - now - while you still can.

Good luck.

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Answer 3

You poor thing to be so hung up on someone that you have to cry when he is not around. Are you that co-dependent? No wonder he doesn't want you. You have to act as if you are not interested and date other guys and don't call him. Suddenly, he'll wonder why he hasn't seen you and he'll call. But, honestly, you might discover someone really interesting in the meantime. OH, yeah, and go get some self help books or attend a self help class or see someone about that co-dependent thing. You are living in the 21st century. A man should be begging for you, not you for him.

Answer 4

If you cry and are unhappy, he will think you aren't interesting and want to do something else. Making him feel guilty only makes that worse.

Guys like to chase girls...it's their hunter instinct. They don't want what they've got..they want the one over there where the grass is greener.

Be an interesting person, and other guys will want you more. If someone else thought you were interesting, your friend might think so too.

Answer 5

His behaviour towards you is a manifestation that he doesn't like you that much and has no desire to linger with you. He's not worth your missing, you will just regret if you'll exert much effort to a person who just doesn't seem to care. Better be hurt now before nothing worse happen. You've got nothing to lose. Find a new one. Goodluck.

Answer 6

I know its hard to forget someone whom you have loved so much.... i had experienced this in my past relationship of five years.... but darling its life u have to look forward and move on... remember the beauty of that relationship but don't let it spoil u.... you are not here to cry for someone who doesn't deserve u and ur love... and the Almighty is very kind to us he will definetly send someone to u who will b best for u and just for u....

Answer 7

Hes SOOO not worth it, unless you are inlove with him, i mean, he only wants to hang out when its good for him?!?!? what a f*in jerk. if, however you are in love with him, you could always see who hes into, and if he doesnt say anyone, Try telling him how you feel. I hope i helped you :-)
~Kaylynn

Answer 8

no hes not worth all that suffering and self doubt. i swear when you find the right guy, none of it will matter at all. i promise, it souinds like crap, but its rally true. all that hearache sums up to nothing later when youre married and settled down.

Answer 9

im sorry but hes not a good friend. a good friend will talk to you for more than a few minutes or hang out with you when he/she can. if they cant do that then they dont deserve to be your friend at all.