My husband has always made it clear that our relationship is open, and that he can and will sleep with other women, and that I am able to sleep with others. But is it normal for him to want to sleep with other members of my family?
2006-07-20 19:03:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't listen to any of these pinheads. Your definition of marriage doesn't have to fit thier mold. If you're comfortable with it and if you enjoy it then who's to say it's wrong. I assume that you're taking advantage of this arrangement as well.
Now about the family things...that might be testing the boudaries a little...but again, if you're ok with it then it's your call. If you're not then I'd just tell him that your family is not fair game. Failing that...bang his brother and see how he feels about it.
2006-07-20 19:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by John Book 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm k. Well hubby and I just talked about an open marriage, as long as he doesnt bring something home that ajax cant scrub off, I dont plan on doing it, but he probably will sooner or later. I dont think ur hubby should be doing it with your family members, thats to much drama right there, what if he left you for one of your family members? ya never know, it could happen, you need to talk to him about that, but if u dont want the open marriage then definetly talk to him about that.
2006-07-20 19:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure your younger sister and niece are in play and that would be quite normal as would good looking and willing aunts and cousins...perhaps even a willing and dashing nephew would be considered normal but I think mum and daddy are out of the question as well as grannies.
Open relationships are just that, open for all to come.
So to speak.
2006-07-20 19:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ben 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your husband tell you what to do. I f he wants an open relationship, divorce him and go and find someone that apreciates you for who you are. And it's not alright to want to sleep with your family. He doesn't want you, he wants his cake and eat it too. Yor better off without him. He doesn't love you. Love means commitment not infidelity
2006-07-20 19:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by rnaddoug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-20 19:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A monogamous courting, yet a in straightforward terms romantic one via fact i'm asexual. via fact i've got not got intercourse, "one evening stands" and such are meaningless to me. i do no longer think of i ought to maintain a romantic courting with assorted companions, or that it could be terrific for the individuals in contact. The logical decision is a monogamous courting, then.
2016-10-08 03:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should be shot. He is a sex maniac. Sleep with members of your family?......is he insane? Are you insane to even allow him to mention it?. Divorce him.
2006-07-20 19:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yall are married and it's posed to be just the two f you then thats what it should be...he shouldnt want to sleep with anybody but you...least of all your own family members...
2006-07-20 19:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
baby how long are you going to put up with him sounds like you are a trophy and you let him do anthing he wants are you the same way
2006-07-20 19:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband wnats a open marriage....... then divorce him...that should be open enough for him..& tell him to leave your family alone........ that is a line no one should cross...
2006-07-20 19:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by nanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋