i mean will she get mad
2006-07-20 18:40:49 · 43 answers · asked by pink_lousiana 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It doesn't really matter if she gets mad or not; you still have to tell her. Tell her straight up. At first she will not want to here it but she is your mom and she will help you.
2006-07-20 18:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about how you tell your Mom. Just do it sooner than later. How you tell her is insignificant to the fact that it is what it is. Of coarse, she will probably be mad if your young and you cant provide for this child. You probably want to present this with a tone of, I need your help, Im sorry, I mad a mistake...kind of attitude. You really really need her on your side.
Well, if your very young 13-15, you might want to consider giving the child up for adoption. That way, the child can have a stable home.
2006-07-20 18:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, take a deep breat, calm down, and just think, is ur mom the kind of lovy dovy where she doesn't take anything out on u very hard, or not at all, or the type of mom that goes mad when u do the slittest thing wrong? or in between?
if she's the kind of lovy dovy type then i think just about any way would be fine, but the best would be to sit down with her and talk, start out with asking her about when she was pregnate and what she told her mom, or if she did, an then just sort of slip it out after a while! but if she's the type of mom who gets mad at u for everything then maybe a just strate up, mom i'm pregnate, would be right, and for in between u can do either of those!
or u could say, mom i'm pregant, what do u think? what should i name my child? or something like that! or u could just for of tell her nicely, mom i'm pregant,(and if u need help or something say), and i'm new to this so i was just wondring if u could help me out, on some details of being a mom, some tips and such, something like that! i know this was long but hope it helped!
2006-07-20 18:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by devathyme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, she'll be upset...but she'll find out anyway when you start to show in a few months....might as well tell her now.
Tell her "Mom, I have some bad news. I'm pregnant." Then say something about it being a stupid choice and how sorry you are for messing up.
She'll probably be upset, then a little sad that you are pregnant at a young age (I'm assuming you are young since you want to know if she will get mad), but she'll still love you.
2006-07-20 18:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by laetusatheos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a few months and you won't have to tell her.
I don't know your mother or your situation so I can't really help you. Most likely, you would be the person best able to answer that question.
Does your mother love you? Then you can most likely tell her and she will eventually come to accept it. She'll probably give you some sh*t, but she will come around.
Or is she more concerned with 'how it will look to the neighbors'? If that's the case, you're in for a hard time, I'm afraid.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 18:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by cdb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think it would be easier and have access to a therapist, do it w/them there. It may be better if you had someone else you trust in the room, such as a family member or a best friend. You need to tell her b/c you need to get the prenatal care for your baby and you also need the support. I don't know how old you are or if you are financially and emotionally able to take care of this baby but i would also consider abortion or adoption. You should talk about the options w/your mom.
2006-07-20 18:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by chill'n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you're a teenager, so the best thing to do is to sit her down and tell her that you have something very important to tell her. Once you have her attention, let her know as painlessly as you can. She will be upset at first, yes, but she will also always love you, and support and help you in anyway that she can. Mothers are like that. They can be the most understanding people at times. Good luck!
2006-07-20 18:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a baby "bib" and write a letter saying "by the way you are going to be a grandmother with the cutest baby in the world who will adore you for being thegreatest grandma".
Good luck!
ANd while you do this, have yr bags packed and ready to go to your other relatives home in case she gets out of handle. dont run away just move to your aunt or grandma or whoever cares alot for you and won't mind if you are pregnant. JUST IN CASE.
2006-07-20 18:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are over 18 it should not matter if u are , but yes it was hard for me to tell mine to the first time because i was only 20 and not married. i had my ob Dr. tell my mom for me they can do that if u tell them they can.but i wish u the best of luck babies are a hand full , but also the greatest love u will ever know i get # 4 in Nov. and in saying that u are your moms baby too and even if she does get mad u will always be her baby and she loves you:)
2006-07-20 18:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie & Jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her..good news ma, we can start saving money!
I don't need tampons for a while!
By the way, I am assuming you are under age and still live at home.
Let me be the 1st to thank you for having a baby out of wedlock, you cannot afford!
I am SO glad more of my tax dollars are going to YOU and your new baby, when I cant afford glasses, needed surgury and medicines because I am paying for YOUR baby to be born and all the other services you will get as an underage unwed mother.
Hey, if you get W.I.C., can I come over and watch you eat!
Thanks a lot !
2006-07-20 18:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋