My boyfriend and I aren't sexually active, but were happy. I almost slept with one of my closest male friends behind his back. What should I do? I don't even like my male friend. It just kinda happen, but it wasn't a heat of the moment either. Who should I be with and what should I do to make sure that this dosn't happen again?
2006-07-20 18:17:04 · 14 answers · asked by Shantil T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
take a course in not being such a skank
2006-07-20 18:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Haylow ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NOT have almost slept with your best male friend behind your boyfriend's back. You don't even like your friend so stay with your current boyfriend. Find ways for you guys to be intimate with each other and talk to him about that. Be honest and choose your words carefully. As for the male friend.... be very clear that you don't want anything else to happen between you guys. Both of you are friends- that's it. The last thing you want right now is to hurt your boyfriend, your best male friend, and yourself. It is not worth it so stay with your man.
2006-07-20 18:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, before each and everything if I were you i'd bypass and get examined. I actual have an strange feeling this guy became no longer having his first time like you've been. i guess it is plausible, yet i'd bypass and get checked besides. 2d of all purely understand today that maximum adult males will do some thing to get you to have sex with them and once you provide in they're finished with you. it is unhappy and seems propose yet maximum circumstances it is authentic. 0.33, bear in mind each and each and every time you sleep with someone you're giving bits of your self or your soul away. Please imagine carefully before you bypass so a procedures with someone, exceptionally a chum. I believe the first individual who responded you, sex and friendship now and again do not blend, except you both agree it truly is a booty call, or maybe then someone commonly finally ends up getting damage. sure, ignore about him on the celebration. He needs issues over...then they're over.
2016-12-06 01:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by navarro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL!!!!! YOU NEED TO CHECK YOURSELF. WHAT KINDA SH*T IS THAT!!!!! YOU KNOW HOW YOU COME OFF IN THIS PICTURE RIGHT! A LITTLE HO!!!! NOW I'M NOT CALLING YOU A HO BABY GIRL, I'M JUST SAYING WATCH HOW YOU ACT AND HOW YOU POTRAY YOURSELF YOU HEAR.
NOW WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH A GUY WHO YOU ARE NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO? DUMP HIM AND FIND SOMEONE WHO DOES TURN YOU ON. YOU'RE OBVIOUSLY READY TO GO. I'M NOT SURE IF YOU'RE A VIRGEN OR NOT, BUT THAT'S JUST BULLSH*T TRYING TO GET WITH A MALE FRIEND WHO YOU'RE NOT ATTRACTED TO, WHILE HAVING A BF!!!!! I MEAN SH*T IF YOU WERE HOT FOR YOUR MALE FRIEND I'D SAY LEAVE YOUR BF AND STAY WITH YOUR FRIEND!
YOU'RE NOT HOT FOR HIM, YOU'RE JUST ACTING STUPID. I'M SORRY, BUT YES THAT IS STUPID BEHAVIOR. AND IT'S GONNA HURT SOMEONE WHO I DON'T THINK (YOU HAVEN'T INDICATED) DESERVES TO BE DISRESPECTED LIKE THAT! SO IF YOU WANT TO BE CHEATING, LEAVE YOUR BF, LET HIM KNOW HE DON'T CUT IT AND LET HIM GO. TO MAKE SURE THIS CRAP DON'T HAPPEN AGAIN, CHECK YOURSELF!!!!!! RESPECT YOURSELF. YOU'RE A WOMAN, YOU NEED TO RESPECT YOURSELF IF YOU WANT A MAN TO RESPECT YOU.
IF YOU'RE OUT THERE ACTING LOOSE, GUESS WHAT, THEY'RE GONNA TREAT YOU LIKE THAT. AND IT'S NOT COOL. SO TAKE CARE AND BE CAREFUL!
2006-07-20 18:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you know what to do. Simply just stay away from you male friend.
2006-07-20 18:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you came so close to have sex with somebody else, then your heart is not with the boyfriend. if you dont even like your friend then why, do you think you almost had sex with him? it sounds to me that you and your boyfriend are as connected as you should be...you should talk to him about it...
2006-07-20 18:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by PerfeclyImperfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably what 12? Don't be a sl*t. Grow up. Break up with said b/f, he doesn't deserve you, he should have better.
(and you don't really like the other guy) LMFAO.
2006-07-20 18:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU WITH THE OTHER GUY IN THE FIRST PLACE
THINGS JUST DONT HAPPEN , SOMETHING IS GOING ON
AND YOU NEED TO FIND OUT WHAT IT IS. WHAT HAPPEN
WILL HAPPEN AGAIN IF YOU DO NT FIND OUT THE PROBLEM
THAT GOT YOU IN THIS SITUATION.
2006-07-20 18:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try keeping your pants on!! That always works for me!!
Much Love!!
2006-07-20 18:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with your man if you two are happy...but since it didnt happen (and i'm sure it wont happen again) then there's no need to stress...just chill...
2006-07-20 18:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the bf the truth. it may hurt him, but if it is true love, then it can be worked out, if it is not meant to be, then it was not meant to be
2006-07-20 18:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋