I've been married for five months to a man I've been with for six years and just found out he's still keeping in contact with women from his past, and he's gone into detail exactly what he wants from them. He knows that I found out about it ! should I go ahead with those divorce papers!
2006-07-20 17:34:29 · 17 answers · asked by chalice apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
havent you seen the tide commercial ? nah na nah na, ha ha ha,
good bye ! honey, do you have to get those divorce papers ? yeah !!!
2006-07-20 21:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by sexy brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The choice is yours. Selecting husband is also one of your choice and you cannot blame anyone for that. If you had been with your husband for more than 6 years (I mean before marriage), you should have known him better than anybody. Does he has this habit in seeing his exes before marriage? You wouldn't know (otherwise you will definately not married to him, right?)
So obviously, he is trying to have thrill and fun for himself to keeping in touch with all his exes and he has no shame for his act. Ask yourself " Are you able to tolerate for his shameful behaviour and just close one eye for it"? If your answer is NO, why hesitate?
Does your husband is a loaded man who well take care you although he is a flirtatious? If yes, I would suggest close one eyes, get monthly paid frm him, do whatever you like, go out more frequent to mix new circle friends. Reasons are you are his legal wife and if you ask for divorce first, he could save a lot from spliting his properties to you. So pls be patience and build up your self-confidence.
However, if your husband is a penniless man, get my advise and KICK his asshole and pack your stuff and file for divorce. A penniless man who isn't able to take care of his current family, still have cheek to flirt with other women, is a shameful acting.
2006-07-20 17:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i mean he wasnt honest or faithful to you, why would he still want these ex's, they are ex's for a reason. if he told you what he did in detail then whats next to do is sign the papers and dont look back.he still wants these girls and wont change, he doesnt love you because if he did he would leave these other girls alone. i say get away from him so he wont hurt you anymore.six years is too long to find this out , what a waste of time,move on you deserve better.
2006-07-20 18:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you men are paying attention to all the women who put such an emphasis on money and taking everything a man owns.
Men, watch your money!
Can you say pre nump?
Alpha Male
2006-07-20 18:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Risingson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already going behind your back after 5 months, imagine what he'll be doing in a year from now!!
Get out now, before it becomes harder and more painful for you to leave!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-07-20 17:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one thing you can do, tell him to his face, stop what he is doing as its going to end in divorce,
if he say he will not then you will know, but if he say he will, then keep an eye out to see if he is lieing.. most men can not look at a direct question and keep a stright face if their about to lie.
2006-07-20 23:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by tony_shand2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that it really matters but exactly what is it he wants from them? If it is against your marriage definitely yes!
2006-07-20 17:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jill1012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know gf let slepping dog lay hes no good for you save your self the hurt and pain in the long run
2006-07-20 17:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-07-20 17:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend asked you this question how would you answer her?
What are you willing to put up with?
2006-07-20 17:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by prettywomansm11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋