My husband and I were discussing our fantasies. He said he wanted to have sex with my sister and use her like a little whore while I watched. I got really mad at him and didn't talk to him for a couple of days. But, I kind of like the idea after i've thought about it and the gut reaction has gone away. I think my sister might go for it cause the two of them have always "innocently" flirted with each other. So, should I do this?
2006-07-20 17:33:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell No, Because they will always be wondering what if and that eventually cause hatred between you I would be very offended by this and I probably wouldn't stick around if I knew my husband had said it let alone have already thought about it! Watch them maybe they are already screwing!
2006-07-20 17:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jill1012 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband's fantasy is an insult to your marriage. His obsession might hurt you at the end because if your husband would have sex with your own sister, what would happen if both of them liked it? There could be succeeding sex encounters between them which you would not know anymore. Their first sex encounter will lead to another until such time that they will want to live together with you out of their way. Infidelity may be a possibility.
And would you go on having sex with your husband who might be thinking about your sister during the act? Will you not feel insecure if your sister is really better than you when it comes to giving sex satisfaction to your husband? And there are lots, lots more that I can ask you after that.
You will be haunted by the fact that you have seen your husband with another woman who is even your sister. If you will not be traumatized by what you will see, for the realization of your fantasy, you may continue doing it beyond reasons or for experience's sake. If trauma is in your way after that, better not pursue your plan for it willl not give you peace in your home from then on.
Sometimes, it's far bettter to let fantasy remain in our minds without hoping for their materialization. Reality hurts and realization of fantasies may too. It depends on the kind of person you are. The decision is yours to make. Do what your mind dictates without having regrets at the end.
2006-07-20 17:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well to approach this question i have a few gut reactions....first how can you be mad at an honest answer in a mutal conversation about a fantasy, if you really didn't want the truth don't ask...that was unfair to be upset at him.....but the question in general...if you think this is something that you can do without regretting it, or coming into the marriage as a problem, go for it be adventurous have fun. but if there is any doubt in your mind what-so-ever don't do it...you know how upset you were just by the thought of it, that reaction to just hearing the fantasy will probably be about how you'd feel actually seeing it.....
i just saw the movie Seeing Other People the other night and your question made me think of that movie. it is a great movie that depicts going outside of your relationship and how it can effect you whether you think it will or not...check it out before you make a decision, it might show you better than what you could be told.....
2006-07-20 17:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Husband and sister?
2014-12-18 22:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way think about the ways this could back fire on you. Okay first, your husband leaves you for your sister. Second she gest pregnte and then your children and her children will be sibling/counsins! Oh I could think of so many more senarios, but just watch Jerry Springer once in a while and this should answer your question. My advise: DONT DO IT!
2006-07-20 17:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by akiras mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without understanding her or the placement...attempt to understand that she's dealing with plenty precise now (and till you have been there, you are able to no longer understand the sentiments she has precise now). attempt to decrease her a destroy and comprise her interior the marriage making plans. she could additionally be a great help. i'm no longer asserting which you're able to bow all the way down to this female, yet do understand that she replaced into in his life first and she or he will constantly be in his life. think of two times in the previous you assert something to her. you're dealing with various stress your self precise now and you do no longer desire to assert something which you would be apologetic approximately later. actual, you're able to communicate on your fiance and if all human beings is going to speak to her sister it would be him. in case you get right into a controversy along with her, your fiance is then in a no win difficulty. you would be plenty greater effective served to go any anymosity off on the bypass now in the previous 5 years bypass via and you the two hate one yet another. edit: your sister in regulation to be may be a royal discomfort, besides the undeniable fact that it is your husband's interest and prerogative to tell her how confusing she's making issues for you and him. if he refuses to try this now...do you think of that it will be distinctive once you get married? this may be a purple flag rearing that is grotesque head.
2016-12-10 11:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't dream of it, if I were you. What if he enjoy having sex with your sister more than you.
I once had that experience. Now we are working through mending relationship with my sister.
Hope you will prepare yourself for the damage it will cause. On the other hand, you might be strong enough to withstand the test of your fantasy.
Good to have fantasies, but reality is something else. The court is making a lot of money with divorce court case.
2006-07-20 17:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Farani P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the past have you ever had any Psychiatric help? If not then I think you need to get some. Your husband disrespected you right to your face and now your okay with that. You need to go with your first reaction.
2006-07-20 17:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you secretly can't stand your husband and/or your sister and want things to be "not quite right" between you three for the rest of your natural lives.....then go for it!
2006-07-20 17:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by carynmel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, try it and find out.
people whom we see daily in news with weird ideas, they start slowly same like you and end up as weido's when caught.
After all, all of us in this world are weirdo's of something.
Don't forget to inform us of the outcome
2006-07-20 17:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋