I regret sooooooo many things in my life that I blame on youth, immaturity and not having a role model in my life.
2006-07-20 17:19:01 · 14 answers · asked by littleflower 3 in Social Science ➔ Anthropology
yes from time to time,
Yet if you regret cetain things, because of the outcome then you learned right?
YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT WITH THE INFO, IF YOU HURT SOMEONE, YOU CAN ALWAYS SAY YOU ARE SORRY,
if you did not finish school, you can still do that,
THINK OF THE SERENITY PRAYER, IF YOU DO NOT KNOW IT, LOOK IT UP
do not dwell on past mistakes and choices forgive yourself, and do not blame anyone else, rolemodel or not, what is done is done, and what matters now, is today, who you are, and how you want to be known in the world, this is up to you..
you are no different from most humans, they make mistakes, and have secrets, and are not perfect,, what you do with what you have, and if your youth is gone, than use what ifo you need from mistakes, and go forward,
onward and upward, good luck
2006-07-20 22:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They used to. But I came to realize I made decisions with the information I had at the time so now I look at those things as learning experiences. It's truly a waste of time to dwell on regrets. Use what you've learned and move on. Don't "should" all over yourself. You know, should have, could have etc. If it makes you feel better to blame not having a role model, okay. But really, what would you have done differently. Can't say can you. Everything we do has value of some sort. You may have to look very hard but it's there. Good luck. Lighten up on yourself.
2006-07-21 00:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by BigRed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they do not. I am not saying I have not made my share of mistakes, because the lord knows I have. However, I find the best way to remedy the problem is to focus on the future and what we can do to avoid committing the same mistakes, rather than beating ourselves up for what we were too young and stupid to know better. Blame isn't going to solve the problem, only you can. I wish you all the best in the future. Remember, there will be many more mistakes made, and each is an opportunity to grow as a person.
2006-07-21 00:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by chelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no regrets... why? because I consider all of the mistakes I made in my life building blocks. Without them I would NOT have become the person I am. It is all about choices... let them be regrets.... or learn from them!
2006-07-21 00:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kim H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have made my fair share of mistakes....this is true, but I live life with no regrets. Sometimes it is making mistakes that makes us stronger and the person we have become today. Sometimes we have to make mistakes to learn from them. Don't let your past haunt you, chalk it up as wisdom learned. Now is the time to reflect on your past and view it as a learning experience.
2006-07-21 00:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have regrets. Mistakes, yes. The word regret holds you down, mistakes just happen. And because of those mistakes you learn, and hopefully don't repeat. If you have regrets, you are living the wrong lifestyle, with the wrong frame of mind. Don't think of messups as regrets, think of them as mistakes and they won't bother you as bad.
2006-07-21 12:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, bec if i have regrets, i cannot enjoy life. I never regret and follow what my heart say and i think i am happy. Good luck.
2006-07-21 04:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by easyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have so many regrets. My life would be so much better if I had made better choices.
2006-07-21 00:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Werecatwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept responsibility and then stop thinking of them as regrets. They were mistakes that you learned from. So now learn from them and grow.
2006-07-21 00:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! Obviously there are things we wish we had or things we wanted to happen in our lives but you play the cards your dealt and move on.
2006-07-21 01:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋