Him and his wife married for 6 years and have a child together. They were excellent couples. After the child, they do not happy each other. His wife wants to stay at home with her child but he does not afford. Therefore, she is not talking to him. He works hard to get money; still he does not afford to have her to stay home. on this situation what do you advice to him....
2006-07-20 17:17:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him to make a budget and get a better job then, when he makes a budget then he should cut out some things like cable and going out to movies and food and electricity and phone, once that happens then she will see the light and think about working
2006-07-20 18:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gonna have to work. I tried to be a homestay mom and my husband and I just could not afford it. My child went to daycare when he was 1 and a half. at first it was hard for him and me but now he will be six in a week, he loves it.They go swimming at school, play whole day, he has friends, etc.He is socializing and learning. Meantime me and my husband can afford the lifestyle we wanted to have to begin with. When I started working full time when my son was 3, if I didn't get that job within a month we might've filed for bankruptcy. I want to forget those days of struggle.Being at work also fulfilled my life.I feel like I contribute and my husband seems to appreciate me more. He can never say to me "I make living and you dont" I love my independence. Makes me feel strong.
2006-07-21 00:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be some work she can do from home to support her husband. That way, she does not have to leave her child.
On the other hand there have been men who hold two jobs so their child can get a best support when he is not around.
He do not want to wake up one day, his sons teacher understand his son more than him. And his son listen to a strangers advice than his advice.
2006-07-21 00:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Farani P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that his situation is something that he and his wife
need to talk aboutl, but it sound like the wife need to start
support her husband and get a job to help out.
2006-07-21 00:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he has no problem with his wife, he wants to have an affair with you, men dont talk about their problems with other women there is always another reason, maybe instead of talking to you he should be busy working instead of talking to you, you are such a tart to get involved, stop talking to him and mind your own business.
2006-07-21 00:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she should get off her butt and help her husband,
2006-07-21 00:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
polygamy is the answer
2006-07-21 00:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋