2006-07-20 17:14:18 · 8 answers · asked by eli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please tell me you don't believe him.
Does he feel threatened by you? Does he believe there is a chance that you will leave him to fend for himself financially? Perhaps he puts you down because he feels insecure about the relationship, and doens't know how to express himself like a mature adult, as opposed to a big bully/baby.
So your question for yourself should be: What am I going to do about it? (I hope the answer has nothing to do with changing yourself to please him.) Good luck.
2006-07-20 17:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, well...isn't he an ungrateful sonofabitch!!! Stop doing so much for him and see him change his tune. Make him shoulder some of the responsibility. He's doing that to feel more of a "man" because he feels you have the dominant role in your relationship..which you do. But he should NOT have a problem with that. This verbal abuse is crap, pure and simple. YOU have the power position in that relationship, flex your muscles girl...don't take this from him. Stand up for yourself and pull the gravy train out from underneath his sorry butt!
2006-07-21 01:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all are you fat and ugly? If you've gained a little wait its probably because butt head stresses you out...Get in shape for you not him and then flaunt it just before you leave..There are plenty of guys who'd appreciate even the smallest thing you did!! No I'm not saying leave him just teach him a lesson!!
2006-07-20 17:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was down that road 10 yrs ago, I thought i was everything a wife should be and more, I strived to be his virteous woman, To me he was my King..
I have had women to ask hubby in front of me if i were his mother, that was really horrible to the self esteem i was only 10 mos. older than he..
X was so critical of me, my looks, my body.. It cam down to our 26 th wedding aniversary, he filed for divorce.
Kiddo, rather than go thru the abuse and torture down the road, after he succeeds than what? Me i am a paulper, driving around half of a car, while he owns and drives the best, Oh well, well. I have settled to being the best that i can be, I'd rather live alone than go thru the abuse and tormenting mind controlling stuff i came out of, i feel lucky now.. God Bless You Dear..
2006-07-20 17:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by hauntedheart25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not finance his studies anymore, tell him that you'd rather spend the money on yourself and loose weight and buy new clothes, in the long run that would be a better investment you'd find a better guy and he'd be unemployed and with a superficial woman just like him, hes not worth the sacrifices, if your going to make any let them be for YOU!!!!! you go girl.
2006-07-20 17:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not significant what you do the actual fact won't substitute you from being fat and unsightly to him. So in case you're fat how is you doing issues for him going to alter that? he continues to be with you so which you will possibly desire to not be to undesirable yet you possibly greater stupid then fat in case you nevertheless look after him.
2016-11-02 10:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, just visualize a blue ball before you go to sleep and ask the blue ball what you should do, do it repeatedly night after night until your answer comes...it never fails!
2006-07-20 17:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his a s s to get his s h i t and get the hell out if he dont like how you are
2006-07-20 17:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋