i've been leaving with my bf for almost 2 years. when i just moved in he had tons of his ex gf's pictures (they had been together for 7 years so there were hundreds of them). it totally freaked me out, but i guess i was so in love that i tried not to pay attention to it. it was very painful for me, because being home alone i couldn't stop myself from going over them again and again. than i started to slowly throw them out without telling him. eventually there was not one left and than i told him. we had a huge fight, but he says that it was not about the pictures it was about me throwing away his stuff.
even though it happened long time ago, i still cannot understand what would make a guy do something like that. ever since then i feel very insecure about the relationship.
it this kind of stuff appropriate. in my opinion if i would be keeping pictures of my ex in the house i would at least make sure my bf doesn't see them. =/
i'm confused
2006-07-20 16:53:04 · 6 answers · asked by KATЯ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i actually told him how i felt, and he did put them away.... under the bed we were sleeping on
2006-07-20 17:11:11 · update #1
To be honest, you should have told him about your feelings, but you cant help being hurt and in love.,.. Ive done things like that too... I found his EX girlfriends underwear and I was heated, But he moved out just throughing stuff in bags so her **** got in the bags too on accident, But You did what you felt would make you feel better and you probably didnt want to piss him off... Its okay.. The past is the past, He loved her and he had a hard time getting over her, in the long run if you too are ment to be together you did him a favor... It is hard to get over a love... you just helped him see that You are what matters not some pics he shouldnt have had them in the house...
Women normally have an Ex box... I do... I only take out that **** to laugh... Men dont think the same.. LOL
Women are smarter...
Dont be hard on yourself, we all do foolish things when we are in love and hurt.... Just next time talk about your feelings LOL...
Although... Thumbs up on getting rid of them, there was no need of them in the house when you moved in, in the first place!
2006-07-20 17:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by irreplaceably_rare 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-05-07 19:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still have pics of every man I dated for more than four months. If a guy came along and tossed those out, I think I'd probably pull a Lorena Bobbitt on him. I hope that someday your boyfriend does something equally horrible to you for destroying his mementos and that he's only biding his time. You are a horrible person for doing that to him.
2006-07-20 17:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong. You should have told him how you felt and he probably would have put them away. She was there for 7 years and she will always have a place in his heart. You taking it upon yourself to get rid of them is selfish and childish.
2006-07-20 16:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-28 03:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Gay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have them burnt.
If not dump him.
2006-07-20 22:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋