I always keep dearming about her but any time I try to tell her I change to another conversation.
2006-07-20 16:47:56 · 17 answers · asked by kuntakwaku055 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Stop being a chump and speak up. If you wait long enough, some other guy with the nuts to step forward is going to end up with your girl.
Just be honest with her. Be sincere. And stay away from that love her deeply stuff or she'll think your creepy and avoid you. Just be nice to her and let her that you like her...
2006-07-20 16:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only natural to feel some hesitation in affairs of the heart. You're afraid she doesn't share your feelings, and that you might lose her. It's possible she may want to tell you that she loves you, but has the same scary thoughts.
I guess it would depend on how well you know this friend, and what the quality of your relationship is. If you've been on a fairly platonic friendship, she may think of you in a brotherly way. On the other hand, a guy can sometimes tell by the way the girl acts around him if she's ready for more than mere friendship. Observe her responses. Does she look in your eyes with affection? Does she touch you? Do you laugh together? Check out her body language, and notice whether she tries to get closer to you. Does she flirt a lot? Does she want to be with you all the time? If you can answer yes to any of these questions, I think it would be safe to assume that she's definitely attracted to you.
Since you are so hesitant, however, I'd suggest you just give it more time. Eventually you'll find just the right moment to tell her you love her. But there's no hurry. Just enjoy what you have with her right now, and let nature take its course, as they say.
I have a hunch you are both pretty young -- I'm guessing early teens. If that's the case, then there's all the more reason to take your time and not rush things. Chances are you'll fall in and out of love many times before you find the one and only. Good luck!
2006-07-20 17:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ease on into it. If you present it like you say here "deeply in love with her" and she has not had romantic thoughts about you, or has but it is not quite at that level yet, you may turn her off and scare her away.
If you tell her that sometimes you find yourself thinking about her in a romantic way and having feelings of wanting to be more than friends, I think this is a less threatening way of approaching it. If she is not there yet, she may get there after knowing what you've been thinking about her. She can't fault you for being honest. If she doesn't react badly, you can ask her if she has ever had thoughts like that about you, or has ever thought of the two of you becoming more than friends.
If you can't trust yourself not to say too much, put duct tape over your mouth, ha ha, that's what a friend of mine used to say.
Good luck, and try not to spill your guts too much. Women like a challenge, so don't let her know how deeply you feel just yet; if you are too easy to land it makes you less interesting. That's how a woman's mind works! Go figure!
2006-07-20 17:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chris S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be a reason for you to hold back. It sounds like you aren't sure what kind of response you will get from her...so just love her, be patient...and when it feels more right to you...you'll say it to her without a second thought...I promise. Your actions will speak volumes over your words, anyway...and she will get the idea. It is possible this is a "one-way street" affair...and if it is...you need to know; so you can explore other options for yourself. We can only be responsible for how we feel...and it does not obligate the other person to feel as we do.
2006-07-20 16:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the time is right, I say tell her. It took my best friend almost ten years to finally have the courage to tell me but now we have been together as a couple for over three years and are very happy. I wouldn't wait ten years, obviously....but when you feel the time is right, don't be afraid....just be honest! She may have the same feelings for you, too! Good luck!
2006-07-20 16:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by nic2127 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u really do have to do it in person, but to make sure you DO say it call her first and tell her you have something important to say. Bring her flowers or something so she knows whats coming, and you wont be able to get out of it because its too obvious
2006-07-20 16:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls. Or start asking yourself if you are gay. Stop being a F A G man. Get some balls, stop dreaming, and start doing.
2006-07-20 17:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mike42884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly you may tell her the way you sense and if she is familiar with she probable feels the comparable way you do and if she does not then i think circulate on in case you like yet once you tell her which you dream approximately her than like she could be like so in love with you.
2016-10-08 03:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you may not want to hear this, because this is what everyone is going to say, but just be opened. you have to tell her, and if she does reject you, then there really isn't all that much you can do about that, except move on. and if she seems interested...then what did you lose?
-Meghan
2006-07-20 16:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just shy about expressing there feeling. It will come out.
2006-07-20 16:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋