18 and pregnant again, help me?

Question

I am 18 and pregnant again, this is my third baby. I don't know who the dad is and I am really scared. My other two don't have dads either and all I want to do is find them a decent one but everytime I find a nice guy I get knocked up again and he leaves me. I need to get on birth control, where do I start?

I think I am going to place all of my kids up. Its sad, but I just can't take care of them. I have no life, I can't go out and do anything. I just want to party and have fun.

Answer 1

no you dont need birth control. you need SELF-CONTROL.

Answer 2

Forget what all these other people are saying to you about being a stupid hoe and just being rude... They are disrespectful and I will try to help you the best that I can! Ok well first of all you need to go to the clinic and get a pap... then you need to ask them if you can get on birth control... If you don't like taking the pill there is a shot for it... If you don't like that then the patch.... or maybe just using condoms! But remember.. Nothing is 100%.. so if you don't want another kid then maybe not engageing in sexual interactins with the other sex would be alot more safe! I am just trying to help! Hope this atleast helps out a little! I really wish you luck and hope all goes well with you! O and by the way.... You will find that one man that will be that role model for your children...... You will there is hope for everyone! Take care hun!

Answer 3

Girl, I'll be 23 next week and I'm pregnant with my third child, and my first two have a father but it's like they don't, so don't stress that part. First, learn to love yourself first and fall in love with God and yourself, then you'll know what TRUE love is really like. Because think about God loved you first or you wouldn't even be here. And about the third baby don't beat yourself up about that either. Because sometimes a man isn't what a baby needs, all they know is that they want someone to love them and that's what you need to do for your baby!!! About the birth control I'm sure they'll make an exception for you and give you a tubal so you won't have to worry about having anymore children. Keep ya head up!!

Answer 4

Have the baby, and if you cannot afford to properly care for it put the baby up for adoption. It is not fair for the child to suffer in poverty for your mistakes. If you are only sleeping with one guy at a time you should be able to find out who the father is. Go to Planned Parenthood and get on the pill (Don't get on the shot) and make sure you take it the way you are supposed to. Get yourself some counseling to figure out why you think sex = love (It doesn't). Guys will tell you whatever you want to hear in order to get you in bed, but you need to be stronger. You also need to be careful not to catch Aids, as this could leave your children with no mother OR father.

Answer 5

first you need some sort of birth control, second if you feel that way about your children then you should put them up for adoption. You owe it to yourself and them to have a good life, and a happy as possible life. There are people including me who would love to take a child/baby into there home and give it all the love and wonderful things in life they could. Children don't ask to be born, so you owe it to them to give them as good a life as you can, and if you can't physically do it yourself then you should find someone who can. God bless.

Answer 6

CONDOMS!!! Didn't your mother ever teach you anything? Spermicide, the sponge, a prescription for birth control pills.

Here, take two aspirin and hold them between your knees!!! FOREVER!!!

You should be scared, you've barely started your own life and now you're bringing your third baby into this world?

DON"T SLEEP WITH EVERY GUY YOU MEET!!

You need an HIV TEST!!! If you sleep around so much that you have no idea who the fathers of any of your children are, you are "AT RISK!"

Answer 7

You should start by getting some help with your self esteem. And stop sleeping around. What kind of life do you think your children are going to have? It is not cool to have kids when you are not ready and especially if you don't know who the dad could be. You should also get an HIV test as you obviously don't use protection.

Answer 8

it seems as if its to late 4 that right now but when u do have this third child im sure theres a free clinic where u r i hope u take it seriously to go there theres no reason children shouldnt know who there father is and i advise u look into that 2 u didnt have sex with ur self to get them so u shouldnt haveto take care of them by ur sely well i really do wish u and ur kids tha best take care and dont b fooled by every man that comes ur way

Answer 9

AHH. sweetie, you should have learned your lesson after the first one. birth control is so important! maybe you should consider giving this one up for adoption. realistically, at 18 you cant support 3 kids. and until you get your act together, its not fair to your kids to have a mom who doesn't even know who their father is. i know we all make mistakes, but some have bigger consequences and my heart goes out to you. you can get the pill from planned parenthood.

Answer 10

Sweetie,not to sound rude but maybe you need to take a break from the whole sleeping with guys thing.You should just focus on raising your children and not on men.And go on birth control!!!

Answer 11

those are your kids and you laid down to make them now you should take care of them if you dont want to have more then keep your freaking legs closed how sad your kids didn't ask for you as a mom and now you want to give them up your a bad mother trying to go out and party take responsibility of your actions and take of care of your kids