Everyone who tells me to leave my serial cheater boyfriend is right. I am trying to reconcile with him, but my heart aint in it and I told him. I think he's using me for $$$ too. But how long before things typically turn sour and I can use it as an excuse to JET!!!
He knows I'll leave again. I want him to f*** up so I can go. And I have a funny feeling, he does too. We just feel guilty without trying "one more time".
2006-07-20 16:35:57 · 26 answers · asked by Nuni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get out now! he won't change.
2006-07-20 16:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by leakser68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to help people like you. You know how difficult he has been and what you have been through, but you are so in to "trying to work it out" for all of the wrong reasons. You don't have to leave him just to impress us or anyone else around you. You are the only victim in this case. Do you realize that a "serial cheater" is dangerous to your health. Sexually Transmitted Diseases are real and many of them are incurable. If you continue to keep making excuses for staying, you'll live to regret it. You deserve better, even if better is alone.
2006-07-20 23:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no one can tell you to leave him until you are ready to. I have taken my lousy cheating husband back a couple time. We are not together not and I do not plan on ever taking him back but it was a step that I had to do for me. I couldn't be told by anyone. 'I loved him too much' but you have to do what is best for you. Life is too short to waist it waiting for a jack a$$ to mess up again. Go have fun and find real love.
2006-07-20 23:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by crstlrvn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait till he fudges up again cause it might not be easy to fix. Its seems to me you already have some great excuses for leaving. Believe me waiting just makes things worse. Sometimes you need to grab it by the balls and throw it out.
2006-07-20 23:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by ShadowUltima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cut his money off almost completely and act totally IN LOVE WITH HIM AND CLINGY....he will jet trust me and even start buying marriage and wedding magazines he will freak out! Start to call him constantly and say baby i missed u and annoying him...lol...he will **** up quickly
2006-07-20 23:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!! You're obviously not happy in the relationship. And he doesn't sound like a great guy...so get out. You don't have to wait for a fight.
2006-07-20 23:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're heart isn't in it, leave - don't bother continuing to try to fix it. It's just a waste of time & energy then.
2006-07-20 23:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by sct72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question for you.....how many times do you put your hand in fire before you know it hurts and not to do that again? Honey you're on fire....save yourself and get the heck out of there.
2006-07-20 23:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are like many of the girls I have dated you will find a way to break up with him that causes him maximum pain.
Ladies, discuss amoung yourselves ...
2006-07-20 23:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Murph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him and get on with your life
2006-07-20 23:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being naive and snap out of it. Just end this relationship and move on with your life.
2006-07-20 23:37:51 · answer #11 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋