i want to get pregnent but when i have sex my bf will only use a condom but im telling him dont use it i want to have a baby
2006-07-20 16:35:16 · 19 answers · asked by companykid101 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
we r enganged to be married he said he wants a baby but he likes the condom
2006-07-20 16:40:49 · update #1
I have never heard of a man liking the condom better than the vagina. He just does not want to have babies.
2006-07-21 03:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok well if your boyfriend is using a condom that is a good thing because he might not be ready to have a baby yet. He might not be ready for that responsibility.
You should respect him. When the time is right you will have a baby. Iam telling you its not something to rush into because babies are alot of responsibilities and once you have a baby your whole life changes from what you do to sleeping, everything.
You need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend and see if that is what he wants to if not you cant force him to not wear a condom because he is doing the right thing and being responsible espically if he isnt ready..
2006-07-20 23:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by catherine b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are engaged,you are ready to get married and must be in the right age I assume.Why don't you just wait for your wedding to be over before you go into this baby stuff.First of all you don't want to have a buldging tummy on your wedding day do you.If you still insists that you want to have a baby before the wedding bells ring.Rather then telling him not to use,talk to him discuss with him on why he is using a condom and find out his interests about children.Decide further after that.
2006-07-20 23:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand that you eanna baby and he also wants a baby but likes to have a condom during intercouse.I think if you both wanna baby then make some holes in the condom then you will be happy and your boyfriend as well.
2006-07-21 01:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by m41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try removing the tip of the condom..this way he still has the feeling and the pleasure from the condom, and you guys can have a baby, too! make sure that you both are ready for a baby tho...HaveFun
2006-07-20 23:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by K to the C from the C to the K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he's telling you all that's on his mind. He may not want to hurt your feelings, knowing how much you want a baby. Sounds like you two need to have a talk. Everything happens for a reason. I think your expectations of the relationship are different than his. You need to work on your relationship not a baby. Sorry!
2006-07-21 00:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by fang w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it has to be a mutual thing between the both of you. How old are you? It does not sound like you are old enough to have a baby, if you are trying to pressure your b.f. to get you preg. Wait until you are married and have your own house and can support a baby financially.
2006-07-20 23:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the h*ll do you want to be a single parent? I'm married with a kid and that's hard enough!! This is selfish on your part, sorry. Relax, grow up a bit, find someone you love and get married. Do it the right way.
2006-07-20 23:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you a technical answer. After he ejected, get him to flip the condom over. Another way is to cut a small hole at the tip of the condom. (For those people answering this question, please read the details for the actual situation.)
2006-07-20 23:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Freesky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he is not ready or he might be cheating and dont want to have sex with you without a condom well dont rush things yet have a talk with him first
2006-07-20 23:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋