My boyfriend tells me this story that his third child is not his but wife cheated on him and had achild from somebody else during marriage but hi still stayed with her for the sake of marriage. I find it hard to believe cuz I would never stay in that situation. What is your opinions on that matter.
2006-07-20 16:31:14 · 12 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would never trust my wife after that, resent her, not speaking of taking care of the child, even though I am a woman..
2006-07-20 16:42:44 · update #1
Why not? Eminem did it.
2006-07-20 16:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Magdalene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The loss of trust is too overwhelming. I do not cheat and would probably will never forgive cheating.
As to take care of someone else's child. I have been there and done it. The girl is now 22 and lives with me instead than with her mother.
2006-07-20 16:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bestfriend cheated on her husband and got pregant. He stayed with her and raises that child like it is his own. That is true love!
I feel when a husband or a wife chooses to stay together after being cheated on, it is soley based on wanting the marriage to work and with that they have to accept the baby. i think in your situation I would look at it like, you have a man that would do everything in his power to make the relationship work.
2006-07-20 16:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lori C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is typical girl mentality of doing something crazy like this and seeking attention and stand out in the crowd.
How can you tolerate this kind of personal insult.
I would have thrown her out at that moment itself.
We boys have to be very Strong in this kind of aspect. Other wise these kind of girls will continue to take undue advantage of being a girl.
(I have a high respect for women and i am talking about this particular case where i think women also will support my answer where i am of the opinion that same thing applies to boys.)
2006-07-20 16:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by kelashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed with my ex after she got pregant with someone else. She left me 3 months after the baby was born for a new guy. I'd never stay in that situation ever again, I thought it was for the best but once your with a cheater they are always a cheater.
2006-07-20 16:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by NOVA50 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man loves a woman, {sounds like that old song}, he will do a lot of crazy things to keep peace, and also, he loves his other children, and doesn't want to break up his family. You don't know what you would do, until you walk in those shoes. Garnet
2006-07-20 16:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess anythings possible unless he's just waiting for the opportune moment to leave. A bird in the hand kind of thing! Either that or her family has money or she is just that darn good in bed...Men can be real shallow!! Or forgiveness... is possible?!
2006-07-20 21:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi - it truly is amazingly confusing to human beings looking in on someone elses courting. in my view i does no longer stand for it, yet some causes for staying might want to be: - she honestly loves and forgives him (this may be faith-depending case in point) - she believes that he will replace himSELF ultimately - she believes that she will replace him, given sufficient time - she has nowhere else to pass - she is terrified of divorce and seperation technique; the workplace artwork, the pressure, the splitting of things etc. - she believes it truly is in her youngster's perfect pastimes to have even an errant husband/father at homestead - she is terrified of the guy; concern of exact violence - she has low shallowness and thinks that no different guy might want to possibly want her - she is afraid that he might want to take the toddlers far flung from her (case in point if she has a psychological condition or is a drinker) - he has confident her that the different women are 'meaningless' and that she is his purely genuine love - she knows even WORSE marriages than hers, perchance with violence and/or drugs in them, and convinces herself that her marriage isn't that undesirable - she blames herself for his dishonest; she thinks she's no longer sturdy sufficient in mattress to fulfill him, or she thinks she is bodily repellent - she has been offered up by using her moms and dads/relations to believe that this behaviour is 'known' for men. - she only would not CARE what he receives as a lot as, see you later as he comes homestead and promises for the homestead and relations - she's waiting for the toddlers to go away homestead earlier divorcing him (in reality sacrificing herself for what she perceives is the more effective sturdy) - she is likewise dishonest and so won't be able to call him out on his behaviour. there is possibly even more effective! sturdy question, thanks.
2016-11-24 23:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is not only possible, but happened to my sister-on-law. They were having problems, she made the mistake of giving in to temptation with someone who treated her nicely, and ended up being pregnant with his child. She and her husband wanted to have a good relationship, and made up, renewed their vows, and he rejoiced at the birth of "their" child. (They are still married 18 years later, thanks to their shared faith in the Lord! Christians aren't perfect, but they're forgiven and have God helping them handle the results of their bad decisions and teaching them to make Good decisions.)
2006-07-20 16:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by junielu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned that anything dealing with men and women can happen. This particular situation happens more times than you can imagine.
2006-07-20 16:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was dumb enough to get married and my wife had a kid with another man they both would be ******* annihilated.
2006-07-20 16:33:39 · answer #11 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋