second even we are in separate family...my mother in law is comming to my mind and make me distrub..becase she made such a harrasment to me...i want to get rid her from my mind...but she is comming more frequently....
can anybody help me ...always a am in tention
2006-07-20 16:28:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No need to be fed up when you not even grown yet. Sometimes you have to reach the bottom before you reach the top. Sometime you go through the roughest war and sometimes you win the smallest prizes. But you must know how to filter stress, emotions, and negative things. Imagine or dream of the person you want to be and a perfect place that exist in your heart that no one else even knows of. You can not disrupt that dream and think of how you would love to have it. Almost as you would die for it. Living is the same thing. "you live for, what you die for" You must protect yourself from stress. Stress seems bad but really its just a recognition of a problem, while a problem can ALWAYS be solved or simplified. You must see stress as "a call for action" you must do something about this problem. If you can not handle debating opinions with someone, staying patient and open minded, or communicate well by understanding another and another understanding you... you must then find a peaceful place to think. Sum it up... BLock out Bullshlt and Try to be a smart leader in solving problems. There is more problems that can come and if you not dead then you doing great buddy. Limit you conversations with your mother in law or try to direct the conversation in a good direction by being nice and ignoring foolish things. Just like a child. Dont be scared and keep ya head up. Good luck and much love to you!
2006-07-20 16:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by carolinakres 3 · 23⤊ 4⤋
Ok..your question isn't very direct, but it seems as if you are confused and not sure where to go from here. What I will tell you is that no matter how bad it may seem... things truly will get better. If you can't seem to get a job..sit back, relax and think about what you truly want in life. No need to do something you don't want in life and consume your time with tension. Do not worry about your mother-in-law or any other family member right now because honestly your own sanity is especially important if you feel like this right now and this will make your whole family better when you know what's going on and you feel good. Just step back from the situation and decide what's really important. If you aren't getting positive energy from your family at this time then no need for them to be around. Don't place yourself around people who either can't understand what you're doing or only care about what they want. This is your life and no one will lead it but you. I have faith in you! Have faith in yourself!
2006-07-20 16:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mary C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone does not take you serious, slap them! That should get their attention. Of course you might also get slapped back or wind up in the gray-bar motel but you will have been taken seriously. I wouldn't worry too much about being taken seriously as most of the population does not take serious matters seriously. For instance, ever since 911 many of our rights have been taken away by the unpatriotic, so called patriot act and the top stories from the major news media are Britany Spears or O.J. Simpson while much of the population is enamored with all the reality shows or American Idol. How many people do you think are seriously concerned about who murdered the victims of 911 and bringing to justice those really responsible?
2016-03-27 01:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep applying everywhere you can and eventually you will get hired. Once you are hired, your mind will be os busy with the new work and meeting new people that your mother in law will not come to your mind as much. Try to take a relaxing bath, pamper yourself, and then go out there and get a job because I know you can do it!
2006-07-20 16:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can see why you ain't getting a job, get some education, your English shows that you lack it and you need a lot of catching up!
Your mother-in-law is disturbing you? How? Does she come over to your house? Does she harasses you there also? If not then you need to get over what she did in the past and try to focus on your career, keep yourself busy and try to boost your self-esteem.
Is your husband supportive? Seek his help in charting out a career plan for yourself. You need a lot of moral support to get over past hurt and he is the closest guy there. Seek help from old friends, you will have to work on this. Goodluck!
2006-07-20 16:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by prashantpachauri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find peace in your heart and your mind will follow. I can only assume you live within a culture that is different, unique to American culture. You can always speak to your mother in law or speak to your husband about the problem and correct it from there.
2006-07-20 16:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be picky when choosing which places to apply to... if you're desperate for a job apply EVERYWHERE... you're bound to get hired sooner or later...
As far as the mother in law goes... why not try talking to ur husband/wife about how much she bothers you and harrasses you? If he/she loves you enough they will sit down with her and ask her kindly to stop...
2006-07-20 16:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Evette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about your mother-in-law. That's just their job to make you crazy. Just concentrate on finding a job then you'll be at work most of the time.
2006-07-20 16:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the Angle Dust, Then get a Job
2006-07-20 16:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by animalmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you first should learn better English and after that tell your mother in law to leave you alone!
2006-07-20 16:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋