I have been with my bf for almost 3 years but ive always liked girls even before I met him I even dated
one while with him, I can masturbate to them everything they just work for me. Now maybe its because im young but ive just always liked girls alot in an emotional and sexual way but I love my bf very much and I would never leave him but. I call myself bisexual people say you cant be that my friend said you can get off on being a lesbian but actually arent one. IM confused I love my bf very much he arouses me also but girls are just my thing,.,...so confused any words of wisdom please
2006-07-20 16:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by Ac11d Tr0j4n 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If I were you, and if I wanted to know which gender I should be putting my emphasis on for, perhaps the rest of my life, I would go see a psychologist and/or sex counselor and get off on the right start before you ruin some lives, like your "bf," who you say you will never leave, but might have to, and the girls in your life which may be the wrong way for you to be leaning. You do not know at this point in your life and will not until you get some professional help--and that does not include your peers, people of your own age, no matter what their sexual preferences happen to be. Go for it--bite the bullet--listen to their advice--and eventually you will be able to make your choice.
2006-07-20 16:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by jcorcor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are bisexual to me. Nothing wrong with that. Open communication with your bf about this would probably be a good thing-- he gets you off and it doesn't sound like you want to leave him. Maybe there would be a way for the two of you to work this out-- it would help if he's open minded, but most guys would flip for a chance to be with two girls, if you were willing to share with him.
2006-07-20 23:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Hugo Reyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can really say what gender you prefer but you. It's perfectly fine and natural to like males and females, equally or otherwise. I went through the same thing, and then I realized that you don't even have to make a choice if you don't want to, unless being "undecided" annoys you. Focus on the person, not the gender, and you'll do fine. :-)
2006-07-21 00:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Aeamanthe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying; somethings are better left to the imagination. Maybe you should try getting with a girl, (you probably dont have to leave your boyfriend to do this) if you cannot bring yourself to be with a girl you are probably not bi and are just attracted to women, it doesnt mean anything, its perfectly normal. Even if you are bi, why would you have to leave your boyfriend?
2006-07-20 23:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by ..I.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang around your bf more you will gradually start to like him. but i kind of know what you mean. but just when you see a girl look at a guy instead.
2006-07-20 23:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by PeppermintPandora<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to put a curiosity to rest and find out which your preference is. Then you will know.
2006-07-20 23:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by bbt843 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋