2006-07-20 15:33:53 · 39 answers · asked by distrait_are_you 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I guess im askin what im supposed to do?
2006-07-20 15:34:57 · update #1
He has the major issue lately thinking Im cheating on him because I was on blackplanet looking at my cousins page who just so happens to be a freak. I dont cheat, dont do much of anything but take care of my household and our son. I'm lost.....Whats the problem?
2006-07-20 15:42:07 · update #2
Sorry, I guess i should have said this happened about an hour ago and he technically didnt break up with me but he left the house and is being abitch about it..
2006-07-20 15:47:40 · update #3
wow he is weird... strap him down and put makeup on him
2006-07-20 15:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probally didnt leave about the makeup, he probally wanted out of the relationship anyways and was just looking for a excuse. Because wearing a little mascara is not going to break up a 7 year relationship unless this man has serious mental issues. Dont worry you will find another man that is worthy of you, but dont be afarid to take a time out from dating. Even if he was a jerk losing a long term relationship is hard and you dont have to start dating right away. But you dont need him if he's gonna use such a lame excuse to cheat on you so definatly leave him alone!
2006-07-20 15:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. You live this life and at the end of it no one is there except you and if you've not done or missed out on life too late to go back and do it. Do you want someone telling you what you should or shouldn't do for now its make-up what else will he not like. You should be able to make the decisions in your life even i its just whether to wear makeup. He's sleeping around-is that how much the 7yrs meant to him-didn't waste any time nor seems heartbroken over the split. Count your blessings that he left and make your life as to how YOU want it to be.You weren't given this life to please someone else-only God.
2006-07-20 15:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The issue here is a lot deeper then your makeup.When people accuse the other of cheating ,they usually are the ones cheating.Its away of justifying their actions,by saying to them selves,well,she's cheating on me.So, this way it gives them the OK to do it,in their heads.
You have a baby,that child is the most important here.The babies well-being is paramount,to raise a healthy child,mind body and spirit.So,if you stay with him,it will always be something else to ***** at you about,ie your hair,your house keeping or something else.I get the feeling this has been going on for sometime now.I 'm pretty sure he would lie and cheat on you again with another.Save yourself the heart ache,and your babies well-being and move on.It's very hard,but its for the best for you and your child.Good Luck and stay strong.
2006-07-20 16:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with your life. If he is using the excuse of cheating becasue you wore makeup he is a control freak.
But if he has left you than it is not cheating he is free and so are you.
It is hard but life does go on. When my bf of 16 yrs left I had no idea what to do but I am with a great guy now. Maybe it will last maybe it won't but for now it is good and I am enjoying it
2006-07-20 15:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what is the situation and what rreally happened to u 2. Your statement is also kinda blurr, who is cheating who?
Do u feel that he left u because u put mascara againt his will? What the.. I think u didn't get what is your problems. Is is not as simple as mascara lo.
Can u tell us in details so we can help u? I really have no idea what is happening between u
2006-07-20 15:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if something as simple as you wearing a little bit of make-up made him leave, cheat, and stop talking to you - he has major issues.
And his leaving probably has nothing, really, to do with the make-up thing. there's got to be something else going on there.
You have to either get him to sit down and talk about it, or you'll just have to move on. Because, even if you do get back together with him, if you don't work out what, exactly, is wrong, things will deteriorate again.
2006-07-20 15:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has moved on dear.. u should too..
your makeup has nothing to do with y he left.. you think it might be the reason y he did that, but really, its a convinient (and illogical) excuse u came up with to justify the fact that he cheated on u and he left.. he wont talk to u, probably cos he feels guilty. he has to overcome the fact that he actually cheated on u, and be brave to face u..
its been 7 years, if a relationship is going nowhere and its been 7 years, it takes 2 very strong individuals to make things work and get through the rough and boring period.. he is weak. do not hold on to false hopes..
2006-07-20 15:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by oribyte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is totally insecure. When women wear makeup of any kind, they are more attractive to the opposite sex and also feel better about themselves. Both boost self esteem. He is afraid of losing you and is using his "leaving/cheating" as a form of manipulation to exert control over you.
Count your blessings that he IS gone. If not, he could very easily turn violent towards you.
Best wishes and good luck.
2006-07-20 15:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You are such a sweet girl and he loves you so much like that!
To be natural is the most beautiful makeup for us.
He loves just the way you are without making up, but natural.
Maybe he doesn't have any interests on mascara, but he really wants to see you being natural and so beautiful without any makeup.
You are such a beautiful girl.
Cheers!
2006-07-20 15:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by alma_selena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaahah, sry, anyways makeup obviously has nothing to do with anything. I bet he was cheating before he broke it off, thats why he left. Wear as much makeup as you want, but don't think that is any reason someone would leave after 7 yrs...unless they are a freak.
2006-07-20 15:38:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋