I am in love with a boy who says he loves me bak... but he said he would dump me if i didnt start eating meat, and I am a vegetarian. He says that he is worried about my weight because I am seventeen and 84 pounds. I feel strongly about not eating animals but I would marry my guy. What do I do?
2006-07-20 15:12:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I AM 4"11 that is my height
2006-07-20 15:51:21 · update #1
Why don't you want to eat the man sausage baby?
It's all right it's good for you, and the juices are rich in protein
2006-07-20 15:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by S S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's frightened for you if you only weigh 84 pounds-- how tall are you? Three feet? I strongly advise you to talk to a doctor about your diet- find one who supports vegetarianism if you can- and do some research about healthy vegetarianism on the internet. It is entirely possible to maintain a healthy weight without meat, but you need knowledge to get the right balance of foods. Meanwhile, it wouldn't hurt you to eat some meat and fish until your weight returns to normal. It sounds like you're severely deprived of protein.
If once you manage to maintain a healthy weight he still insists that you eat meat, then he's too controlling. Right now though your first concern should be your health!
Half an hour later- I read your details and checked your BMI. Yes, you are underweight and you need to see a doctor about that.
2006-07-20 22:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I'm 22 and weigh 97lbs. That would sound and seem gross except no one knows my height so they can't really tell me I'm anorexic or too skinny. So if he's worried about how much you weigh because of your age, then there's no point. However, if you are taller than 5', then yes you should try to gain weight. Instead of eating meat, just go on a heavier veggie protein diet to add some weight on your body! Because if he's genuinely concerned about your weight, it shouldn't matter what you eat as long as you gain some healthy weight.
2006-07-20 22:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by Naomicles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i would do. dont quit being a veg. but kind of cheat just to make him happy. dont eat every day just once in a while. if you have an annivesary comming up, take hime to a stake house or something and eat meat...you may feel bad about the animal, but make him happy, he'll think twice. just dont eat a lot of meat. be like a half veg. and prey that god will forgive you everynight you end up eatting meat.
2006-07-20 22:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by hlcutie_9469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start eating meat i know u dont like the thought of eating a poor animal but thats life!and also u need to gain more weight and i doubt u could do that by just eating plain old salads
2006-07-20 22:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy has a body that is a graveyard for your friends, and he wants to corrupt your body with their corpses. Keep your body pure, and your friends safe. Good advice to check with a doctor about your current weight - 84# seems pretty light to me, and I've been described as the poster-child for world famine relief.
2006-07-20 22:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by © 2007. Sammy Z. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are, you should not change your belief for a man.
You should not have to! If he loves you he will accept you for who you are... Although you may be a little under weight, eating meat won't necessarily put weight on you. My bro lost 80 lbs. eating proteins.
2006-07-20 22:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by suequek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off go here and figure out if you are a healthy weight for your height and age: http://apps.nccd.cdc.gov/dnpabmi/Calculator.aspx
If you are a healthy weight, dump him and move on. If you aren't, dump him and move on, and make an appointment with your docter.
2006-07-20 22:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tygirljojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww ur like anorexic START EATING ANIMALS!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-20 22:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋