Since my husband left me (and screwed me over big time!) I cant help but to look guys and not care to know them.....I cant look at a guy and see someone original or different, nor do i care to. I mean ya Id like to begin again but I cant help that I feel like this...AH!!!!
2006-07-20 15:00:42 · 16 answers · asked by brittyee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've been hurt. It takes time to get over something like this. Just be patient, don't push yourself and eventually you will meet someone that will be worthy of your love and trust . . . probably when you least expect it.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 15:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur wounds must heals first before entering in any new relation ,,, give it sometime ,,, its so normal that u Rn's interested in any guy u see now CZ once u c any u remember Ur ex. and expect them to do the same with u so u separate Ur emotions and keep them away safe from getting hurt again & thats right ,,, but try to recover ,,, ur ex. is not the end .... the one for u 'll come one day just don't push it hard at urself ,,, let the wound heal by itself then c where this life is going to take u ;))
goodluck ;)))
2006-07-20 22:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there - done that!
Time will make it easier. I also suggest counseling. I do not know to what extent he "screwed" you but mine was so bad I needed major help. Don't try to get into a relationship before you are ready or you will hurt some poor innocent guy. When you are ready be careful. I am constantly waiting for my guy to hurt me the same way I was hurt. I keep waiting and am not able to enjoy the relationship the way I should.
If there are kids involved get them counseling too.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 22:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Toni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking at your divorce all wrong... you are seeing it as "he left you" you should be so happy he is out of your life. He set you free! (by screwing you over I hope you do not mean he left you with herpes or AIDS, anything less is not being screwed, no matter how bad) The best revenge would be for you to go out and make a wonderful life for yourself and be happy. (Are you going to let this guy ruin the rest of your life when actually he did you a favor by showing you his true colors?)
2006-07-20 22:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you haven't given yourself time to heal... you have a lot of emotional baggage you are carrying from this relationship and you won't be open to another person until you resolve the issues that you have regarding the ending of your marriage.. have you considered counseling to help you express these emotions and learn to deal with them and put them in perspective so that you can move on with your life???
2006-07-20 22:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right for you to step into another relationship your attitude will most likely change. In the mean time try to remember that one man is not a representation of all mankind even though that is really hard to accept
2006-07-20 22:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by lavenderwine2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh, good question, impossible to answer by me since i am just like you, cept in a male version, so i don't know what to tell you.
eventually you will meet someone that will be original i guess or maybe you will stay the way you are
i look at women the same way, none of them are any good, they all lie and are worthless
2006-07-20 22:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to heal will help and meeting that special someone. They will come along, don't worry, just give it time. They are not all like your husband was.
2006-07-20 22:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds...You have to love yourself first, let go of your loser ex-husband and then move on. It's very hard...but there are good men out there.
Good luck...
2006-07-20 22:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Eventually you will meet someone you will be attracted to and things will be different.
2006-07-20 22:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋