My wifes niece is 18 years old and has been staying with me and my wife quite a bit me and her wrestle around and play alot my problem is that I have a big package (well i dont think it is but my wife says it is) and her niece keeps backing her butt right into my crotch area ive told my wife about it and she says dont worry about it well since she is not blood to me i need to know if she likes what she feels and should i tell my wife she really needs to stop cause it bothers me after all i think of her as family
2006-07-20 14:57:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me get this straight. In essence, your wife is saying that it's alright to have sex with your niece because she's not a blood relative. Because that's what will happen if you and your niece continue this behavior. Your wife is nuts!
I suspect that you don't have a happy marriage. I don't know how you could with a wife that thinks it's alright for you to have sex with a niece. I can understand how flattering it is to have an 18 y/o
girl come on to you and how tempting that is. However, you know it is wrong to continue this behavior and where it will lead you.
I strongly suspect that the only way to resolve this situation is to demand that your niece live somewhere else.If your wife won't
agree to this, it may be necessary for you to move out. If you continue to have this behavior with your niece it will lead to having sex with her and you will hate your self for doing this.
Ask God to help you with this. He loves you, wants the best for you, and doesn't want you to ruin your live by doing something stupid. God bless you and help you.
2006-07-20 15:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a sit down talk with your wife and your niece. Just all sit around the kitchen or dining table and bring it right out. No, I don't mean flash it. I mean tell both your wife and your niece that the wrestleing has got to stop. It is making you uncomfortable. You might want to forewarn your wife.
Sounds like your niece is doing the teasing that lots of girls that age do with older, not that old, guys. Rubbing up against you and all that. Bring it out in the open and she'll get the message.
2006-07-20 14:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW I would tell your wife there is a big problem and I would confront the niece the next time and tell her that you find it inappropriate and it needs to stop. It sounds like the niece has issues and has other things on her mind.
2006-07-20 15:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is like a mine field or trying to walk on eggs. Your wife niece is tempting you and you really have to be strong not to give into the temptation.
It is best to sit down with your wife and her niece and lay your fears on the table and move from there. There is no easy answer to your situation and i hope this works.
2006-07-20 15:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are all screwed up!!! What is wrong with you???? You are a moron! First of all, STOP wrestling with an 18 year old girl.....Good God!!!! Well, good for you.....you told your wife!!! Forbid the girl from staying at you house, you dork!!! I can see nothing but trouble with the "problem" you have! Your whole family needs couseling! Geeeeze!
2006-07-20 15:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you making this your wife's problem? YOU are the one wrestling, You are the one with the big package....where does your wife come in this equation. Oh yeah, she's the relative!!!! No buddy, don't use that, that's your problem and you need to stop. But it's clear that you like it....
2006-07-20 15:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by latina44572002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well stop wrestling with her niece - unless you like the feeling of her butt! This will only lead to trouble if you let it continue!
2006-07-20 15:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should say something to your wife and to her niece. Maybe your niece doesn't realize she is doing it, or maybe she is doing it purposely. You have to let both of them know that you are unconfortable in that situation. In the end it will work better if you say something. You'll feel alot better about your relationship with both of them if you can talk to them.
2006-07-20 15:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrestling with a sexually mature (physically) female who is not your wife? This is not a good idea! You are playing with fire regardless of what your wife says. Just say this does not feel right, so I am not willing to do this anymore.
2006-07-20 15:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why don't you just stop wrestling around with her because you knows exactly what the girl is doing by backing her butt up against your crotch you are a grown a star star man and you know that it need to stop NOW before it happens.
2006-07-20 15:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋