my neighbor used to like me but now he hates me he gives me rude comments I need help working on problems with him if a girl would be awesome so help me please I wan't to be a really nice but I can't help slipping some things out
2006-07-20 14:43:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
You do not have to respond to rude comments. Smile & walk on by & leave him alone. When his behavior towards you changes, then you can be nice again.
2006-07-20 14:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would take a good hard look at myself first and make a list of the things I've done to cause the neighbor to act that way towards usually. People don't just start being rude out of nowhere.. Have you led him on in any way? Have you done anything to affect him personally. An apology may be in order..along with a change in YOUR behavior. Lots of factors here.. If you actually do not know what you've done to cause his behavior (finding it hard to think that you don't know) I would come right out and ASK him how you've offended him and what you can do to make it right...
2006-07-20 14:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ms_E_Bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to dinner and ask and compromise about how you can solve the problem, this happens. Years ago my neighbor planted his garden on our property, my father had a fit. My neighbor was soooooooooooooo ridic. he planted a bunch of trees on our property to settle it so we couldn't see eachother! The solution happened to be he decided to move. Not the best example, but things worked out!!!!!! Just ask him what you can do!
2006-07-20 14:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by DUH! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have problems with my neighbours.
Try not to do anything vengeful until you have a productive course of action. Think of Jesus walking with you. imagine him saying look at Me. Even when you look at your neighbour. Think about Jesus' face smiling back and loving you.
For now offer up the suffering that you go through to Jesus and for the conversion of sinners. In this way you will be adding your sufferings to the sufferings of Christ.
I'll try to write more later. ;-)
Hang in there,
God Bless You,
2006-07-20 14:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Deena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the nearest sporting good store, buy a shot gun and blow his head off when you see him..then you wont have a problem with your neighbor
2006-07-20 14:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u have to do is not pay attend than your see the more u do that the more he gets piss of than one day he might just need u and well hes mad your be glad who knows he might just move LOL
2006-07-20 14:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by freerhymedanceshauntelljpricesbc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and speak with him nicely and ask him what the problem is. If he doesn't want to speak with you, I would try to ignore him.
2006-07-20 14:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a paper bag and fill it full of doggie poo. then knock on the door and light the bag on fire. when he opens the door, well, you know.
2006-07-20 14:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by chris l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the person and ask (politely and tactfully) what the problem is.
2006-07-20 14:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by pK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bake him an apple pie!
2006-07-20 14:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by Chris J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋