I dated a guy briefly in college, but we stayed close friend for 7 year after that (until now). He has had a girlfiend for two years now who doesn't want him associating with me (she admits she's insecure, b/c he loved me so much). He says that he loves her too, but I saw him two months ago for the first time in two years and I could tell he still had feelings for me. Seeing him again made me realize what I gave up. His girlfriend found out we met up (nothing happened) and now has forbid him from speaking to me ever again and he has agreed...I miss him, but want him to be happy... what should I do?
2006-07-20 14:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by question33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let him know you're available and then walk away. The next step is up to him. Do not get in the middle of his current relationship if you truly want him to be happy. (see "My Best Friend's Wedding" with Julia Roberts)
2006-07-20 14:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and step back, if he is willing to agree with the girlfriend then u will just be in the way, why should u lower yourself to this. If he really cares he will see the light, but if u really care be on the outside looking in so that he knows u are there for him. That will mean the most
2006-07-20 21:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by rodeoweaver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really did care about you and still had feelings for you then he would of never agreed to do that to you. If he lies to her and then stil talks to you then there is definitely feelings. But i say go with what you feel. You don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering, or what if....
whats the worst that could happen?
2006-07-20 21:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by spongebobswife68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait this one out... with her acting like this their relationship will never last. Then he will look you up and you can begin your relationship with a clear heart and will know that he is an upstanding guy that can make his own decisions.
2006-07-20 21:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. If someone needs to fight for this relationship, it needs to be him. You'll just come off looking like a home wrecker. He needs to decide what he wants. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.
2006-07-20 21:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off, if he wants you he will come to you. right now you should stay away from him and his girlfriend. if he loves you he will tell the other girl by, by. but that up to him to do. if he has any back bone. good luck.
2006-07-20 21:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to him. If he wants you he will give up the other relationship and come to you.
2006-07-20 21:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to to this guy, find some one else for ur self and leave him alone
2006-07-20 21:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Twins of Twin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has made his choice so try and move on.
2006-07-20 21:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't anything you can do. he agreed to her demand. it's crappy, but maybe it's for the best.
2006-07-20 21:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋