Aight what if u and a guy has been talking for quite awhile now and yall been thru ish ppl tryna break yall up u kno da usual haters and trials. Alright now recently he told me he loved me and I was doubtful about him lovin me and me lovin him. I mean he’s not the type to show emotion but his friends and other ppl see that he loves me. I have really deep feelings for him and I was thinking about losing my virginity to him so should I do it and how do I start sutin off and just 4 yall I’m 17 so I waited quite awhile. I just wanna kno I need comments on anything.
How do u express ur love?
How do u kno he really loves u?
How do u kno if u really ready to lose ur v-card?
How do u make da first move?
How do u feel after it happens?
P.S Im mature to know about everything but I want different pp’s opinion
2006-07-20 14:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by shawtyshygurl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you express your love to him by the way u treat him and treat him like you would no other guy, he will show u he really loves u example: calls u alot, always wants to see you, takes u places. when u feel u are ready and he is the right one for you thats the olny time u can lose ur virginity, if u feel he is olny going to get the virginity and leave then dont but most guys are there to stay if u make them wait a while. let him make the first move so theres no ??? if u were a virgin or not because guys can be jerks sometimes. it feels kinda wierd afterwards im not goin to lie but u will get use to it, expecially if u stay with the same guy, it olny gets better. i hope this helped you out some and remember use a condom or get on birth control before anything k
2006-07-20 14:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will know in your heart if it's love. There's a definate secure connection when you know someone loves you. You can just feel it & you don't have to ask for anyone's opinion. If you & other people see it, then great. But if there's doubt, like he doesn't show up sometimes, or you can't get ahold of him, he's out with the 'guys', definantly wait.
You express your love by knowing what's important & remembering the things that the other person likes. Maybe he mentioned something about how he loves rocky road ice cream. One afternoon, suggest getting some, he'll really like that you remembered.
If he really lovesyou, like I said, you in your heart will feel it.
I don't think anyone is ever sure about when to lose their virginity. And frankly, for a girl, it's about as ridiculous experince as can be. It's over before you know it, and the whole time, your so self concious about how you look & what he's thinking, that you can even remember what the heck happened. It's takes a little bit to get into the groove of things. Over a month or so & you'll be more into it. He's gonna be into it no matter what.
Honestly with a guy & the first move, all you gotta say is "Wanna do it?" they really don't need anything more.
After it happends, for a while you'll just be confused & excited, but it will all come around.
Good luck.
2006-07-20 22:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by pritigrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"P.S Im mature to know about everything but I want different pp’s opinion"
You're not mature. Shut up. Form a coherent sentence or two. The fact that you're seventeen and usevocabulary like that is depressing. Don't claim to be mature when you can't even iggle without saying virginity so you say "v-card".
Good God, people like you are the reason the U.S. is hated so much.
2006-07-20 22:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by MaxBemis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask people on Yahoo! Answers if you're ready to lose your virginity, then I think you're unsure enough that you should just wait. When the time is right you'll know.
2006-07-20 21:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dan-yell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok reading your question gave me a headache. Do you really think that the whole ebonics thing is cute? It just shows your lack of intelligence. If you are coming on here to ask if it is time for you to have sex then you are obviously not ready. Don't become another statistic!
2006-07-20 21:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by wisegal 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all you are ready for love when you can spell like a person and not like an uneducated fool. That's all we need is more uneducated fools running around spelling in slang. Once you learn to spell then we can talk and when the hell did they start calling it a Vcard? Not in my language.
2006-07-20 22:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by sugar/spice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When your ready you know~! I would say wait awhile longer like a month and if he stays around then he loves you!! Good like on your love!
2006-07-20 21:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by whateva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i made a mistake and had a baby at 17 it my ruin ur life so use use a condom and if you dont make sure ur ready 4 a kid my kid is 2 month and i never get sleep
2006-07-20 21:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by jordandarling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mature ? u don't know any damn thing at all . go mix around learn n maybe in 5 yrs time u can call urself mature .
2006-07-20 22:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say I love you, to the point
when he is in difficult to come and your asked him to come and he come, so you know that he really love you.
When you have married.
2006-07-20 21:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by fuelsaver-upto19% 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋