the reason i broke up with him is because he lived an hour away...we tried to see each other as much as possible but it was to hard cause he doesn't have his car, and i don't have a car either, and i felt that i was stopping him from having fun, and every time we did see each other i feel like i took him for granted...anyway i just broke up with him and he agreed that it wasn't working out, but now that i think about it, i really love him...we havn't talked to each other since then, cause he hasn't called me, and i can't call him cause of different reasons,and i'm really depressed about it...my friends say it was a good thing for me to break up with him ( they offered to take me out and go flirt with other guys, but i would feel like i'm cheating on him cause i still love him),...what should i do?? i still love him so much...
2006-07-20 14:25:44 · 12 answers · asked by pshh =] 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Long distance relationships are incredibly difficult to maintain, no matter how hard you try. Although you may feel a large degree of affection and attachment towards your boyfriend, I don't know how practical it would be to stay with him. I realize how much it hurts to deal with that, knowing there is someone so wonderful out there, but he's just a bit too far away. I can't tell you exactly what to do, but I believe in the long-run you will be happier if you have to courage to move on. However, I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision you make. Your friends might not understand how you feel, but be true to yourself, and consider what will be best for you from all angles.
2006-07-20 14:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you call him, and talk it over. If he feels the same way, then, great! You two can get back together, but if he doesn't, and already has a new girlfriend, you can just be his friend, and find some other guy to go out with. Your friends may be able to help you get him off your mind. Besides, there are many other boys out there, and maybe one might turn out to be better than him! Well, anyways, good luck!
2006-07-20 14:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by lalala <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Or write to him if it's too hard. He maybe feeling the exact same way and too scared to say anything. It may have been a good thing for the two of you to break up. You guys may have needed the space. But a reunion could be sweet!
2006-07-20 14:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. replicate image of me. like precisely the comparable concern i'm in.... that's as severe for me and its been basically wanting 2 years. we are super severe and we get alongside like none different until eventually it includes his money! which finally ends up in him no longer being waiting to circulate out. then while he does not spend his money on weed and video games, he nevertheless does not choose to circulate places. and now rather of exclaiming no he has genuine strange excuses. i visit tell you it has gotten a sprint greater effective and heres how. i've got taken the initiative. i say get in the vehicle, then i take him someplace. its regularly a unfastened place (like a park the place you could circulate on a short walk/hike or a unfastened museum, a coastline or a lake) via fact he nevertheless basically does not dooooo issues. and likely you will combat approximately it. and in case you 2 relatively care approximately one yet another, you will the two study to conform with one yet another. (i'm a dancer, with rather the time table) and thats yet differently i've got been given him to return out, to make certain me dance. he's seen nonetheless that we've exciting on what i call our adventures. he no longer in straightforward terms has discovered to have exciting, yet he could have exciting with out weed, and it has geared up his believe in me. he throws tantrums nevertheless on adventures yet in the top he continuously says i enjoyed that day toddler
2016-10-08 03:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by oberlander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then ur the trouble causer why u breakup with b/f if u still love him get back 2 ur relationship n u said he live n hour away get a cab 2 his house and say sorry bcoz ur cheating
2006-07-20 14:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by wei beng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your friend up on their offer and MOVE ON.
youll find after about two minutes of having fun you wont remember his name.
2006-07-20 14:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by chachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you don't know what you have until it's gone. you said yourself that you were taking him for granted. some people get used to that certain person being there and even if they don't like them, that's what they were used to, so it's sad when they're not around anymore. i think that's what you are feeling.
2006-07-20 14:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another dumb b|tch bites the dust. Get over it...he sure did. When you dump us guys we go and find some new chick asap to bang.
2006-07-20 14:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Chris from West LA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go back to him and tell him about yer feelings if he really loves you then he'll understand
good luck
2006-07-20 14:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by rikardogomez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him if you didn't want to? That was a dumb move.
2006-07-20 14:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋