What do you do when your byfriend lie's to you alot?

Question

Like when ever I ask him somthing but I'll know the truth and he'll lie and then when I tell him that I know the truth he still lie's about it still.

Answer 1

you need to talk to him about this and if he doesn't change something has to,as in a breakup!!if you don't want to break up with him,then make it clear he can't lie or it will happen!

Answer 2

I think your answer has been well spoken.....you don't need a man like that in your life. There are plenty of men out there that would treat you a lot better. If you let him keep getting away with lying, he will not change. Let him know that you mean business and break up with him. If he truly loves you, he will change, but more than likely he won't change. If he does change, it will be long enough to get you back and then he will go back to his old ways, so like I said, leave him. I know there are better men out there and I am sure you will find the right one!

Answer 3

Relationships are about trust. Maybee we tell little white lies to protect the innocence, ego, self asteem, etc of people we care for, but then thats a motive. Whats your BF's motive?
Lies are for ememies, not friends, certainly not lovers.
Just what are his motives? telling you what you want to hear, to keep the peace? Do you nag?
If not, if the lies are about other girls, where he's been, or more importantly, how he feels, Thats disrespectful, of the relationship youve got.
I tell my GF if I fancy another girl, and why (nice bum, tixts or whatever, as it would only ever be physical, and assure her hers are fine too, thiers are just different!) Not that id do it, with them, (if i did id tell her ! id rather risk that, than someone i care for hearing it of someone else, like a rival) but at least she knows what im thinking, though she may not want to hear it, and that im honest.
I reckon thats what a relationship is. Thats why all these "swappers" stay together, Maybee it is honesty above all else that keeps it together?

Answer 4

You should not have to ask anybody for that. You can see that he is a complusive lier. Get rid of him and dont look back. you deserve more than him. Y stay with him he may help you get a free ride to hell if you keep him because if he keep lying to you you may want to murder him and why you want to do dat for? Get rid of him now. If a man lie he will steal and if he steal he will kill. get rid of him. Dont waste your time. Well, I guess I should think so soon, but you need to seek God first and he will steer u in the right direction.

Answer 5

Sounds like you are reluctant to get rid of him since you said he lies a lot. So bite the bullet and get rid of him, liars don't really become honest ppl without some major change in their ways. Of course if honesty is not important to you, then marry the guy.

Answer 6

dump him what he got 2 lie 4 a relationship should stay faithful and truthful so he must be sneakin around behind your back

Answer 7

You should break up with him before he tells a lie that will really break your heart. Just remember that no matter what happeneds your friends can always back you up

Answer 8

you dump his ***.he can't be trusted.so in the long run you'll develop some hang ups like not being able to trust anybody.thats bad when you finally meet that right person who won't lie to you.you'll end up ruining the relationship.

Answer 9

Seems to me that your boyfriend has a problem dealing with reality. The question I put to you now is... Do you? If he's lying to you all the time, can you accept that you can't FIX HIM?

Give yourself a break find someone who respects you enough to deal in truths.

Good luck, God Speed!

Answer 10

Hey gurl! Everybody deserves the best. There is somebody out there 4 everybody. He lies 2 u cuz he's gotten away with it. Hey, he's lied, & ya'll r still together.....u deserve better than that.Go find a new man!