They Live in the same Room! I have never met a homo except for my uncle!Am i the only person homo-phobic please tell me if you are and why so i won't feel bad!
2006-07-20 14:00:58 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Homosexuals don't bother me, just let them know you aren't like that...and if they dont respect that (which i doubt)...treat them like you'd treat anyone else who doesn't respect you...kick their ***...
2006-07-20 14:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have one life ( that I am sure of ), If you worry about things you can not except / change , that's far to much of your life .Do you think they are concerned that it bothers you ? Each day , example , If you look at your birth pictures , then age 3 , age 10 , now ( regardless of age ) Doesn't that time seemed to have passed too quick ? Why spend any part of your life about others you don't love .Each day give it your best memory , for the next may be a day of sorrow .Then when your bored your just thinking , and find that smile or laughter if a special day .Makes the simple day so much greater.Those two might be together forever , they won't think about how you felt , they will laugh about the time they did this or that .You know you cant get lesbian , not a disease . Start today by understanding the waste of time you've done , what you could have done .Yea , they can be your freind , doesn't mean they will try to trap or change you at all .They might be fun to hang out with .Your not the only one , I never was a concerned party about anyone other than the people I love .I am on this because it's late and everyone is a sleep and It's questions like this I answer because I hope you find a way to just love your life , it's (tomorrow is not promised , we forget that ) . Don't waste summer camp ! They are not going to leave , and before you know it everyone is gone back home . So do what is offered and have a great time being you !
2006-07-20 14:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not homophobic, but if a girl is uncomfortable with sharing a room with a 'boy' because of sexual possibilities, then it is only natural and fair that she would be comfortable in the room with a person of any gender wo is attracted to her sex. That is not passing judgement - it is sheer logic.
Would any decent parent want their young girl sleeping in a bedroom with a guy? I sure wouldn't!Obviously the same rule would apply to sharing a room with a 'female' who would have even 'condider' having sex with my youngster.
Get real people. Not everything is bigotry - maybe it is time for the rest of you to 'grow up' and remember that this is SUMMER CAMP!
You expect others to stoop to your very low and 'free' standards, and when they do not conform, you say that they are 'judging.' It sounds like 'YOU' are the ones doing the judging.
Yes live and 'let' live. Hetersexuals should be allowed to make choices also! Who is so stupid that they think the reason is about 'catching' homosexuality. It is about human decency. You don't normally share a room with the 'opposite sex' for a very good reason..... How COULD that reason be any different in considering sharing a room with a lesbian?
As a free thinking human, my personal choice would be to not share a room with a strange man, and to obviously to not share a room with a woman who is attracted to a woman in the 'way' that a man is. Would you be happier if the young lady who asked the question were a disease ridden slut who swings both ways? Allow others to have their 'standards' while you can sleep with whomever you wish.
Are you saying that making a personal choice is somehow 'wrong?' Who exactly is being narrow minded here?
2006-07-20 14:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flaunting sexuality is over the top whether your a "flamer" or over-sexed, pimple-faced, pube. Or a middle aged "perv!" or a "dirty" old man.
If they are puttin' on the show.... COMPLAIN! Tell the camp counselor you didn't come to camp to watch your bunkies live with their heads between their legs. You are a consumer and you are entitled to some peace and serenity, dammit! Camp os for everyone and there is a code of civil conduct among humans that each should respect. They want respect--they earn it like everyone else. Who the hell do they think they are just cos they're not hetero. Typical "don't hate me cos I'm different and giving you the reason to fight me, so I can tell you you're homophobic." (Hypocrates!)
Aside from that, I know of some very dignified people who happen not to be hetero. Understand?
2006-07-20 14:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tommystune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice nick.Sorry you don't honer it tough.
Phobia stands for an unreasonable fear.
Unreasonable,so it really would be best for yourself to loose it.
To begin,see them as humans,treat them the same as you would any other roommate.You will soon discover that Lesbian women are just people.Their sexual preference might be different but there not dangerous and they'll certainly won't go after you.
No you are not alone unfortunately.Homo phobics are everywhere
Your choice,either judge people on their character and actions or on something they have absolutely no control over.
Open your mind
2006-07-20 14:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by justgoodfolk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it freak you out? Think about the question. Would it freak you out if you had 2 black girls, or 2 asian girls, or 2 german girls in the room with you? If you can say no to the second question, then 2 lesbians should not freak you out. They are people just like you, and deserve the same treatment as you do. Their sexual orientation will not rub off on you! Just treat them the way you woud like to be treated by them, and you will be ok.
2006-07-20 14:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by suequek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are not putting moves on you then what is the problem?? There is nothing wrong with not understanding what other people choose for themselves, but to be freaked out about it will only show your ignorance or immaturity. Just stay away from them and go about your daily business and try to think of them as normal people. They are diseased or wanting to "convert" you, so my advice would be to either stay away from them or embrace them as friends that could offer you some understanding to a way of life that you do not understand. Good luck!
2006-07-20 14:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? They aren't going to "convert" you...or even try. If you find a subtle way to let them know you are straight (which they have already figured out, by now)...then they will most likely be sensitive to the fact you may not be comfortable. This is actually good for you...because it will teach you that we are all human beings regardless of our preferences in life. If they should do something that makes you uncomfortable...then tell them. It is mutual respect that fosters good will...a very important life lesson.
2006-07-20 14:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't going to infect you with gayness, and they don't criticize you for your prefered sexual selection. Why do you want to be so critical? I've never known a gay person who was not worth knowing, male or female. I'm straight, but that doesn't mean they have to be. Friends don't have sex. They have too many other things to have fun doing. Leave the sex out of your perception of them and you may find they are really nice people who would do just about anything for anyone.
2006-07-20 14:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by fishing66833 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm guessing that you are kinda young and this is your first experience with gay people, so don't feel bad for being a bit freaked out.
Instead relax a bit and get to know the couple. I bet you'll discover they aren't much different from you. Gay people are just people. They aren't going to bother you or do anything strange. You may see them hug or holding hands but it's no big deal. After awhile you'll forget that they are gay and just see them as what they are, just normal individuals making a life for themselves.
2006-07-20 14:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww that would freak me out. I mean I have nothing against them that just different. So I don't know how I would act. I have friends that are lesbians but I wouldn't feel comfortable sleeping in the same room with them.
2006-07-20 14:08:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋