i have a friend and i feel as if she might be using me but its hard to tell.sometimes she asks me to babysit her baby and i do thats no prob,i love kids.but its when she says shes comin at a certain time but does not. its just a vibe i get but is there like a test i can do to find out for sure? thanks
2006-07-20 13:55:15 · 4 answers · asked by renee s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Say "no" three times as much as you say "yes". Most people get turned off by that, but if she keeps asking you to babysit, that means she really appreciates and needs your help.
Also, you'll be three times free-er.:)
2006-07-20 15:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is using you, but you could put a stop to it. Nobody can use you if you don't let them.
2006-07-20 14:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only ever get to see the person when they want something, they're using you.
2006-07-20 14:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE BEING USED YOU PROBABLY ARE
2006-07-20 14:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋