how do i let go of a man that i'm having a love affair with?
2006-07-20 13:40:19 · 19 answers · asked by Lynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I WORK WITH HIM
2006-07-20 13:45:34 · update #1
well remove the chain attached to your leg. An arc welder is good for this
2006-07-20 13:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by paulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, if its an affair and hes in another relationship, you are a homewrecker, and if its you in another relationship its just as bad because you are cheating. Cheaters and homewreckers are two of the lowest things you could be. You need to get some morals and values. Because this will hurt everyone invoved in the end. If you work with him, you need to try and relocate to a different dept., plant, shift or just get a new job. Cut all ties with this man. It will hurt for a while but you need to have enough self respect and respect for everyone involved to move on.
2006-07-20 20:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to understand that this is wrong and you started this for some reason try to work on your marriage if that's what you want if not divorce and save face you're only hurting yourself in the end ..I say this because obviously your having problems with your mate and having more problems with your side dish you're putting to much on yourself and you're not going to be able to keep up and If that side dish wants to be the main course he can make that happen because I know he knows things about where you live and maybe your phone number i have seen where the other lovers has ruined marriages b4 so watch out end now while ther is still time.
2006-07-20 20:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you would feel if you found out your man was having an affair. Either you need to dumb the guy you're with and go to this other guy, or break it off NOW. Affairs are not healthy for anyone involved.
2006-07-20 20:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that from the Godfather? You are a very confused woman and you deserve no man. Your previous answers where "pray for him", "my husband said this" and now you're having an affair. That's trashy. I say, leave your husband and never get married again. Of course, it's society's fault you're doing this. Married women have an incentive to cheat. They get to f-ck around town, get the house, the kids, and money after the divorce. So, I would say you're a typical woman.
2006-07-20 20:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key word here is "SOMETHING" as in something keeps pulling me back. It's called FEAR. You have fears of finding someone that is emotionally available to you. Probably because you're not emotionally availabe. Once you learn that you are good enough for someone to give you 100% of themselves, you will be able to leave as you will understand that you deserve someone who is available. I assume this is a married man..... if so, it's your fears you need to deal with. He's got his own stuff to deal with and I can assure you, he's not sharing them with you, regardless of what he's telling you.
2006-07-20 20:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention why you are pulling back ???? You say love affair...... does that mean he is married ??? If he isn't then... why don't you stay and try to make it work .... ???
2006-07-20 20:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop encouraging it just erase this person from your life or consider the type of person you are if you dont. Cause cheating is one of the lowest things you can do to someone. Just get some balls and stop being selfish.
2006-07-20 20:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well GET CAUGHT! Tell his significant other! And come have an affair with me! LOL
2006-07-20 20:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, just don't show up where he is at or when he calls u or when u see him somewhere.Also stop seeing him and that is it.
2006-07-20 20:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hoel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋