I have a friend who has put on a considerable amount of weight over the past 3 years and I'm concerned. While I've lost weight, she seems to be getting bigger. Any ideas/suggestions on how to tell her or how to approach the subject?
2006-07-20 13:37:16 · 8 answers · asked by erin1225 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
tell her the truth you are worried about her health. do not brush it under the carpet or do it in a mean way..
2006-07-20 13:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Rock_N_Roll_Chicky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of human beings are eating the incorrect issues and finally end up with Diabetes, and would take photos, that stinks. possibly you could artwork out jointly and basically say you may get in shape jointly, "So no you will ever harm her like that back". opportunities are high she already knows she is fat. do no longer tell her, "it is okay". That sends the incorrect message, her wellbeing is in danger if she is over weight now. in certainty quite often in case you're an over weight youthful individual, you would be an over weight depressing person too. there is not any such factor as a wholesome fat individual or an extremely chuffed fat individual. So be a chum and tell her the certainty with care, and propose which you 2 can artwork on it jointly and artwork out jointly. this might provide her self-well worth basically via determining, and it will make you sense greater effective too. all and sundry choose greater self-well worth and dealing out with a chum is wholesome and drives up chuffed hormones..
2016-10-08 03:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by oberlander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend knows EXACTLY how much she weighs--to the 1/4 pound.
Be a friend for her and accept her as she is.
If--and only if--she brings the subject up of her weight, be supportive. If--and only if--she asks for advice, then give her advice.
2006-07-20 13:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell her that you have noticed lately that she is gaining weight. if she is aware of that,its time for you to intervene. you can start convincing her steps to try to slim down..if she is ignoring this then try to be supportive. I hope she will come into her senses as soon as possible before she suffers health problem at that matter
2006-07-20 14:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by frizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she'd like to try your diet that you're on. Because it's good for the complexion and you love what it has done to your waistline.
Don't criticise her at all or this won't work.
2006-07-20 13:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a diet with her and make it seem as though you want to loose the weight
2006-07-20 13:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by reddishlady29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your concerned about her health and do it when no one else could possibly be listening.
Start out with "your my best friend and i love you... etc"
2006-07-20 13:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey my mom bout to go to the gym you wanna come
2006-07-20 13:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋