I received 42 answers to my question yesterday and most of them adviced me to dump him... How do I go about it? I see him almost everyday.. his financial assistance is not a big issue but it's been around 5 years... I want to work abroad just to get away from this guy but I can't find anything.. I could be stuck with him for a long time.. hurt is inevitable but I know that it's a sin..
2006-07-20 13:21:50 · 21 answers · asked by Ai 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him u dont want to see him noomore and thats the end dont fall for the i'll leave my wife and if hes harrassing u press charges
2006-07-20 13:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by nate224us 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your already a home wrecker, face it! Just leave him, how hard can it be? He will get over it, besides you need to catch up on the sleep you lost for 5 years... The dude is married! Get your mind right and get a clue along with some self-respect. Better get on your knees and start praying for the right answers and for forgiveness. Yahoo answers won't be at the pearly gate when the time comes!!!!
2006-07-20 14:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are disrespecting yourself. Why are you settling for a married man?? No matter what type of marriage he is in, that never ever constitutes you being with him. Get over your insecurities, just tell him the truth--that this is causing you turmoil and that you are sorry that you made a big mistake. Remember too, that if he cheats on his wife--he will cheat on you more than likely if you all do get together. Payback is Hell!!!!
2006-07-20 13:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the first move and quit. You say you've looked but can't find anything because you already have a job, you won't try harder if you don't have a motive.
Good that you came to your senses and break up with a married man. It must feel horrible being the 'homewrecker'.
2006-07-21 07:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you've just got to bite the bullet and be direct about it. Just sit him down, tell it like it is. You feel it's wrong, you want to move on, etc. After that, seeing him around the office could be tough but you just have to hold your head high and be professional about it. Over time it will get easier. Good luck.
2006-07-20 13:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a break up is truly what you want then I recommend you stick to your guns about it, dont lead him on and be honest. Tell him honestly how you feel, tell him its over, its over, its over, and then walk away. I think stringing someone along is more cruel than just letting them go. Dont give him any glimers of hope and if he's normal he will accept its over and move on with life. But it wont work if you dont mean it, men can tell the difference.
2006-07-20 13:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you cannot continue to have a relationship with him anymore, that it has to end. You are not willing to have an affair with a man that has a duty to another woman, who would be devestated to know what is going on, and you need to move on with your life. If he truely cares about you, that he will understand and support you. If he tries to get you to stay by begging or saying he will leave his wife for you, if he will leave her, then he is fully capable of leaving you, too.
2006-07-20 13:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by sweets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mistake #1 you got involved with a married guy
mistake # 2 you got involved with a guy at work making it that much harder to drop the relationship
stick with it, maybe you can meet his wife and make his life miserable
2006-07-20 14:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM, he's married? Well, you could tell his WIFE that would probably cut things off
Why don't you be a real woman and learn how to SUPPORT YOURSELF and then just tell him it is over, and that you would appreciate if he didn't bother you at work about it.
2006-07-20 13:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are getting what you deserve because no one should touch someone Else's property. It's beyond a sin. You should have never done another woman's man anyway so deal with it yourself and with GOD
2006-07-20 13:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by dontknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋