It seems that when a woman is upset she forgets about all of the good or work that a man has put into making a relationship work. She lets that one negative thing out weigh all else. (I'm not referring to infidelity)Why do women sometimes have such an unbalanced focus on problems in relationships and turn a small problem into something larger than it should be?
2006-07-20 13:15:12 · 11 answers · asked by ronbacardi96 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women are very emotional people, and it doesn't make it right that they (we) do that, unless of course there is a big issue and that is why we are so mad about it. Not all women blow things out of proportion, or make bigger issues out of small things, I think most of us have good intuition and as I said, maybe the reason we make a big deal is because something is hurting us.
2006-07-20 13:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Women tend to remember very big events, but they live in the moment otherwise. Everything is a huge emotional issue. Just normal things. So its easy to forget the good thing a man did two weeks ago, or ever day before yesterday.
Men tend to think one good thing will last forever. It doesnt work that way. love lasts forever. Screw up with be remembered forever. Good things fade, and must be repeated.
2006-07-20 13:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called forgiveness, not necessarily forgetting the negative thing that you have done. At the initial stage, all the good fades away from view but later on she will realize that the good things you have done far outweighs the negative action. It rarely is forgotten but when forgiveness comes in, the bad think is not important anymore but making the relationship work is.
2006-07-20 13:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a small problem to you may be a big problem to a woman, and vice versa. That is why emotional intelligence and emphatic listening are so important. Unfortunately, we spend a lot of time learning to talk, and hardly anytime learning to listen. Listen to why she is upset and try to understand and then you can say you have worked at a relationship.
2006-07-20 13:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by paulie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. I don't remember the answer to your question, but it's in this book, along with LOTS of other good advice about how to deal with women or men.
2006-07-20 15:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, we just get tired of putting up with all the BullShhht you guy's do on the regular basis... Yall lose trust in us when we make one mistake and you drive us to the grave with it but don't won't to hear about your on errors... Get over it. Deal with it!
2006-07-20 13:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by bhadgyrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a hard thing for us women. Just keep doing the right thing the right way and she will still love you!!!!!
2006-07-20 13:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why, but I know I am guilty of it. I don't mean to and I always apologize for it later, I know that doesn't make it right, but I am trying to work on that.
2006-07-20 13:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time
They like to remind us of how much we've screwed up and how lucky we are to have their vagina
It's all a crock of crap
2006-07-20 13:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they are all conceided all they want is money they should all go to you know where then they can get what they deserve not what they desire i dont understand why they are so selfish all a guy wants to do is love them
2006-07-20 19:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by daniel l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋