Im 15 years old and im already 3 and 1/2 months pregnant. im starting to show also. How can i tell my mom !!!?

Question

My boyfriend and some of my friends already know. I have also lied to her saying i got my period so she wouldnt be upset.

Answer 1

grab a friend for support, and get it over with.
or plan to sleepover at your friends house, and before you leave write a letter to your mom telling her, so that way she will have a night to think, instead of just blowing her top.
good luck!

Answer 2

Girl go now and tell your mom. No matter how hard it seems its always easier in the long run then holding it in. Your going to make your self go crazy if you don't tell her. They take it sooooo much easier then you can imagine. You wouldnt believe the help they are also. She has been thru the whole pregnancy thing before and knows what its all about. Believe me they are more help then you think. If you havent been to the doctor yet find a planned parenthood or birthright center in your area and get started on prenantal vitamins. Becoming a mom is a tough job believe me I know, I have a 6 week old. If you ever wanna talk you can messeage me. Take care and good luck. ps. If its too hard to talk to your mom face to face maybe write her a letter or call her from a friends house. Best wishes!

Answer 3

I don't know what type of relationship you have with your mom, but it sounds to me like she already knows, or at least suspects, something is wrong.
My advice is to tell her now, especially before she hears it from someone else, like maybe your boyfriend's mom? Tell her that you're sorry that you lied, and that you were just afraid to say anything before because you didn't want to believe it was really happening. Tell her you love her and ask her to support you in whatever decision you might make.
I have a six year old daughter, and the idea of her becoming pregnant in nine years is really scary, especially since I would be a grandma at 36! But I know that if my daughter needed me, I would do everything and anything that I could to be there for her.
Your mother will probably be horrified, shocked, and angry, but the important thing now is to make sure that you and your baby get the best care possible.
Good Luck

Answer 4

i was 15 years old when i got pregnant with my son i was scared to tell my parents too. i was stupid and i didn't tell them until i was 6 months and i didn't get prenatal care until then.Then when i was 16 i got pregnant again with my daughter and they didn't find out till i was 8 months. It was a immature thing to do. Thy will probably be upset with you at first but you need to tell them so you can get to the doctor and make sure you and your baby are okay. They will eventually get over it so worry about your health and the health of your baby before what your parents will think because I'm speaking from experience and everything will be okay this happens more than you think.If you need moral support my e mail is [e-mail].

Answer 5

Oh my goodness sweetheart, you have to tell your mom. No one else can be there for u as much as your mom. Now let me prepare u, she may be a little upset at first but I promise she will come around. All parents are upset when there children get pregnant or something. This is because they may think they have failed. Either sit her down and tell her face to face or if u can't do that write her aletter or send her an email.

Answer 6

Just come out and and say it. There's no delicate way of breaking this news. But don't keep waiting. I don't know what you're planning on doing, but your window of options is quickly closing. Trust me, your mother will want to give you advice. If you haven't already said so... put down the mouse, step away from the keyboard, and walk up to her. Don't have your friends or BF there for moral support. You're a big girl... you got yourself into this mess.... it's time you faced it on your own. Trust me, you won't regret this in the long run.

Answer 7

The best advice I can give you is that if you have any kind of decent relationship with your parents or parent, you need to talk with them now. This is a situation that a 15 year old is ill equipped to deal with. I don't want to sound like I am preaching to you, but you need to consider that you have already made one mistake, don't make it worse by thinking that it will all go away. Ask for help, you will be amazed, after the initial shock' your parents will help you because they love you. Your mom has resources to call on that you don't. Ask her for help, if you think that she can't help, contact one of the local health care clinics and ask for advise. Good Luck

Answer 8

It's best just to tell her and get it over with. I would suggest either going out with her on a mommy-daughter date, or just sitting down with her when no one else is around. Be honest with her and get everything out in the open. In 7 months or so, she would know for sure anyway. You need her support right now. It's hard enough to have kids when you are my age, let alone when you're a teenager. You will need help decided whether to keep the baby or give it up for adoption, and either choice will be hard. You will need her support in whatever decision you make.

It might help to have your boyfriend there with you for support, unless you think it will really upset her. It's up to you, but please tell her soon!!

Answer 9

You should have told your parents from the get-go that you were pregnant. You will need medical care as your baby gets larger, and it's recommended to see a gynacologist at least once a month until the delivery date.
I assume you plan to keep the baby. I wish you luck in the future; raising a child when you're barely finished with childhood yourself will be very hard.

Answer 10

You HAVE to tell her. You will be really showing soon. Sit her down and just tell her. Then maybe you can work it out together. You are not the first, nor will you be the last 15-year-old to get pregnant. Best of Luck to you and your Mom and your baby.

Answer 11

This is one of those things where you just have to bite the bullet and tell her. Just sit her down somewhere quiet that you feel comfortable in, and tell her you have something very important to tell her, that she is not going to be happy about, but you need her to be understanding because you are going to really need her. Then spit it out. Don't try to sugar coat it for her, she knows what you had to have done to get in this position, even if we don't want to think of our parents that way. And her past experience and your personality (rebellious trouble maker, average teen, perfect angel) will effect how she responds, as well.