2006-07-20 12:54:21 · 16 answers · asked by valenz146 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've lived with him for 4 years!!!
He's 35 and I've asked him many times,
and he can't answer me. I am attractive and young. When I want to leave... he tells me he loves me and he wants to get married and he cant picture his future with out me!!!
2006-07-21 04:50:12 · update #1
he doesnt want to rush into anything, a man needs to take his time, get the lay of the land, figure things out, watch football and eat buffalo wings and drink beer, maybe watch the military channel for about five years. If he won't tell you, you have a more serious problem in this relationship, like communication
2006-07-20 13:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by paulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is he? does he want to wait til he is married? does he like guys (sorry to ask but you never know)? or have you gave him some head? if he is not a virgin do you think he might have an std? ...walk around w/ a t-shirt and no panties on, if that dont make him wanna do it...threaten to leave him until he tells you why...
2006-07-20 20:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by nahN2do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said he's your boyfriend, are you his girlfriend? did you have intercourse before you lived together? im going to assume your a couple and that you 2 have never had sex together. maybe he has an STD and he's waiting for it to go away first, or he is insecure about his peepee, or hes 2 nervous and cant get an erection, or your unattractive and hes just using you for a place to live(i did that before), maybe hes a virgin and is scared,or maybe the best answer is...i dont know why girls cant spot a gay guy....HE'S GAY!! is he feminine? wear pink? watch dumb stuff on tv? like gay stuff?? doesnt have sex with females? that makes him gay..sorry babe ,you got yourself a guy who likes to play with his brown eye and sword swallow with the fellas..thats funny!!
2006-07-20 20:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by ouch! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rational explanation for his behavior but one. Telling you the truth would hurt him more than keeping his secret and not having you as his lover.
So, either it's a pretty devastating secret, or the guy is not rational. You have no other answers.
2006-07-20 20:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) he is secretly gay
2) he is afraid that he is not big enough for you, so to speak.
3) He is getting it elsewhere and considers you more of a
friend than an actual girlfriend.
2006-07-20 21:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a.) He's a moral guy and wants to wait until after you say your I do's
b.) He's cheating on you
c.) He's really gay and you're just a cover up
those are your options, you pick!
2006-07-20 20:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Chandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of a good reason that a guy isn't sexual in this situation. Instead of crazy speculation, he needs to tell you. If he won't tell you, you need to dump him.
2006-07-20 20:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isnt ready. If this is an issue for you then talk to him. Tell him your feelings and where you are. Explain your ready for that step and are curious as to if he is ready and if not then why?
2006-07-20 19:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just wants to wait til later or he's cheating!
2006-07-20 19:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by chicagolove78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are living together, you should be able to ask him this question.
2006-07-20 20:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋