My boyfriend was kicked off campus because we were arguing after curfew in my dorm. The issued him a trespass warrant and now he cant come back. Recently we tried to get it resended but the police said no. He lives with his sister but is in the process of gettin an appartment. my boyfriend wants to break up because he cant come see me and he feels like he wont be able to pop up whenever he waants to spy on me. I dont know if he is serious or just playing with me . WHAT DO I DO? WHAT SHOULD I THINK IS HE WRONG?
2006-07-20 12:47:23 · 13 answers · asked by cecelia_reyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wants to break up because of that??? I say let him break it off, he sounds like a fool.
2006-07-20 12:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember that you were arguing when the misfortune happened. If this was a reoccurring thing the arguing, then I think you should break up. A relationship is suppose to be a special relation that makes you happy. If he spies on you he must have a problem with jealousy. That alone is dangerous. You are young and in college. You want to have good memories about these times. Weigh which is the most important for you to worry about, your boyfriend or your studies.
2006-07-20 20:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by patty j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are you doing girl???
Your in college, living on campus, and you want to tie yourself to a boyfriend?? You should be having the time of your life right now, not worrying about some insecure, paranoid idiot.
You should get involved in the college experience, date several different guys, join a sorority, and what about spring break, have you thought about that? Do you really want to have a string tied around you where the single guys are running all over the place..
Besides, now is the time to truly define what you want in an adult relationship, what you expect of a man in that relationship. You can't possibly do that with only one example.
Just keep your self respect intact, don't sleep with them until you get to know them for awhile, and be sure to protect yourself...
Be responsible with your integrity at the top, and you will have the time of your life...
2006-07-23 12:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cecelia, this does not sound like a healthy relationship. This sounds like a pretty insecure and possessive guy. Whatever his good qualities are does not make up for the fact that he has abusive tendencies. He want to spy on you, for Pete's sake. No good and worthy boyfriend would do that. A good boyfriend will trust you. You have relationship issues. You should let him break up with you because he is not mature enough for a relationship.
2006-07-20 20:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend broke the rules by being in your dorm after curfew. He should live with the consequences. If he thinks he should be able to "spy" on you then he's being very possessive. I would watch my step around him if I were you.
2006-07-20 19:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is wrong. He doesn't care for you very much if he wants to break up with you. Kick him to the curb, and find someone else.
2006-07-20 19:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty insecure. Tell him there are rules to follow and he didn't follow them so he has been punished (by having the warrant).
2006-07-20 19:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a future serial stalker to me. maybe it's best to break up. i would be a little worried about being spied on. what's the guy going to do if he doesn't like what he see.
2006-07-20 19:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow ur heart, but I 'd say dump him ad get a new guy, since u were arguin. there are lots of guys out there who are not overly jealous.
2006-07-20 19:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by babigurl34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump anyone who even think about spying on me.
2006-07-20 19:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by musi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋