2006-07-20 12:38:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'd be smiling at the person who gave it to me and say wow thanks.... he told me about this.... I cant wait to see it...
then just take the video ad walk away... and deal with my feelings about it later....
I had a woman friend tell me that the guy was going out with had slept with her and I smiled and said... Yes.. he really is worth it isn't he... he is such a good bloke.. I bet you really enjoyed it..
I just wasn't going to let her know much I was hurting... that i what she was looking for..
2006-07-20 12:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, make a copy of the tape and put it in a SAFE place. Make sure if you have children, they do NOT see the video. Now, put the tape into the VCR all set to go. When you're spouse gets home, ask them if they would check out something on the TV real quick because you need their help with something. Once they are seated in front of the TV, proceed to press PLAY. their reaction to what they see next should tell you what you need to do.
2006-07-20 19:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the date- if it was before we started dating, "Whatever"
If it was after-- "Hell hath no fury..!!"
"Hey, I got this video, let's watch it together..." (Watch video) "So, when were you planning to tell me? Pack some clothes, here's your pillow and a blanket. Leave."
Next day, call a marriage counselor, see what can be done...
I love my husband, but I have a REALLY hard time dealing with dishonesty.
2006-07-20 20:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was before we met get over it. If it happened after we were married I would kick him out on his head and the only thing he would take with would be the tape so he could remember what he gave up his family for.
2006-07-20 19:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by CBS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing you do with the pics you found, leave them and send the pics/videos to their parents house, don't forget to make a copy for their place of work and the Internet.
2006-07-20 19:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by jeremy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find out what the date is on the tape. If it was prior to dating me, it wouldn't really matter.
2006-07-20 19:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him with the evidence and then proceed to take him for all he was worth in divorce court!!! If he's gonna screw around, he is gonna pay for it!!
2006-07-20 19:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by rockinout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen, "Diary of a Mad Black Woman???" If not, it lays out the perfect revenge...stop that bubbling sounds real good to me...
2006-07-20 19:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by GOUTVOLS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wrap it up in a wonderful box with a very lovely bow and present it to my spouse as a gift.
the reaction to it would tell me all i needed to know and where to go from there. ;)
2006-07-20 19:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by littleminx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask my spouse and see if it happened before we were married. If it did...not my problem, if it didn't; head to a marriage counselor.
2006-07-20 19:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋