Year old to move in with her boyfriend to Michigan?
2 months after my seventeen birthday, he's coming to pick me up and take me to Michigan to live with him. First we're living with his mom for a little while, then we get an apartment with his friend josh and his girlfriend?
I am mature enough, I have a job, he has a job, and I'll be out of school.
Any opinions?
2006-07-20 11:28:55 · 25 answers · asked by Peni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you want to live from job to job paying bills then go for it. If you want to go to school and furhter your education and have a better paying job and buy nice things for yourself then I suggest you live with your mom.
2006-07-20 11:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by California<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers think with a different part of thier brains. They cant think in practical terms not because they are not mature but they would not have seen much in the world. So your thinking will change in another few years. I will bet you will come back to me and say you were right!
So you r better off waiting for a couple of more years before taking such big decisions. You probably wont realise this until you are little bit older.
2006-07-20 18:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Seventeen. I am going to say this is your first real serious boyfriend. You are really young. Do you really want to grow up that fast. What if you break up? I am not saying you will. Being grown up isn't as fantastic as it sounds. It isn't bad, but you are taken on a whole world of responsiblities. Be young and have fun. I don't know how long you been together, but this is a drastic move. I would listen to the person who moved out at 17.
2006-07-20 18:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it's right for a seventeen year old to move from her parents... you maybe think you are mature enough but honestly there is so much to look out for... your to young to be in such a serious relationship! and im sure your friends have told you that! but anyways i belive that you should maybe stay at home and date other people for a little bit and if your boyfriend honestly loves you he will understand you are young and need to live a little
2006-07-20 18:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You arn't a legal adult yet.You should at least wait untill you are 18 to move in.Obviously if you are already going to move in with him him why are you asking us?It's too early to be moving in with him.You have a job but it's not proffesional.You need to go to collage and get a degree first.Then you will be able to have a good job for when you start a family.Then you can help support them.You also have to think about bills.They can cost alot of money,There's rent,water,elerctric...You need more time.hope I helped.
Miranda
2006-07-20 18:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows maturity that you ask. You will be unable to be on the lease to the apartment and you are not old enough to enter into legal contracts. This could pose a problem of dependancy on your boyfriend.
That changes the question to is he mature enough? He will have to be the main support system for you. Are you stable enough for that kind of vulnerability? Is he?
I wish you the best of luck. Things might just be ok.
2006-07-20 18:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout NO. Now what happens if you guys get into an argument... or a fight or you break up... Where in the hell will that leave you if you came to MI for him?? Don't get somewhere where you'll get stuck and have no where or no one to turn to... Do you have a job here or are you just hopeing that you'll find a job in Mich, because honey I live in MI and it aint no damn jobs here because I've been lookin for 3 months!
If you do come here GOOD LUCK with everything!
2006-07-20 18:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll remember YOU said this....you do too!
See if you have different thoughts 6 months or a year from now.
We're older....we know....you don't yet.....but you will!
Leave home now while you still "KNOW - EVERYTHING"
Some of the best life lessons are learned the hard way.
However, some mistakes you can't erase.
2006-07-20 19:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope... i think u r way too young for that. i mean, u will change so much in few years. it is soo perfectly natural. if u want, it is ur choice. but if u ask me, until 21 u should be just dating not moving together. i mean, don't u want to go to college and stuff. how r u gonna pay for all the things by a little part time job...
2006-07-20 18:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as someone who did something similar... Take some extra to time to think about it. I moved out almost immediately after high school, first with my gf's family, then just the two of us. I have to tell you, I regret missing the end of my childhood almost every day. You're too young to grow up. Be young, be wild, be stupid. But it's your life, so you'll have to make your own decisions... even if they end up being mistakes.
2006-07-20 18:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by mtjbrady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think maybe you should live by yourself for a little while first. I'm going to assume this is your first serious boyfriend, right? Living together is difficult for many people - make sure you can stand on your own two feet before you take such a huge step!
2006-07-20 18:30:54 · answer #11 · answered by a a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋