my friend thinks that this guy likes her but he really doesnt like her in fact he hates her and she knows that we both have the same crush but shes all ticked off @ me should i tell her that he doesnt like her?
2006-07-20 11:13:54 · 23 answers · asked by Quinn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try telling her what you think and make sure you stress that it's not because you like him as well. If I was in your shoes I would probably let the situation simmer for a while and then let my feelings for the guy be known.
2006-07-20 11:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend really has no reason to be ticked off at you, because people can't really choose how they feel about a member of the opposite sex. I wouldn't tell her that he doesn't like her, though, because she would probably view that as you simply being jealous and/or trying to cause trouble. You know how that goes... If she is around this guy long enough, she'll see for herself that he doesn't like her. All I would do is try to let her know that you really don't want a guy to come between you, because it's not worth it in the long run. I don't know how old you are, but I have learned over the years that guys come and go, but a true friend is forever. Good luck!
2006-07-20 11:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by jobug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that the guy dont like her let her know and would you loose your friendship with your friend over a silly boy you 2 have the same crush hmmm. well for i wont and i made a vow that if any of my friend have a crush on a boy and i have the same i will just keep it for myself and wish them the best of luck and just move on.
2006-07-20 11:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye tell her that,that guy does not like her or make that guy talk to ur frnd bout this matter.if u will not take any step soon then ur frndship can also be in a bit tense conditions.
so jst be open and frank as its the demand of time.
2006-07-20 11:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by shray_malik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No then she will think that you are hating on her just let it play out for itself if you still want to be her friend dont tell her that he hates her she knows i will hurt coming from you.
2006-07-20 11:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Recovery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her it will definatly hurt her feelings just wait untill she finds a guy she likes more then you don't have a chance to accidently hurt her and you will evntually get your guy! Hope this helps!
2006-07-20 11:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it is just best to stay out of it. She will find out the truth on here own. Which is better than her doing that plus losing you all together!!!
2006-07-20 11:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by nikki_is_the_best2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicks before *****..... Your friends are more important than some guy
2006-07-20 11:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lacie Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what any self respecting girl would do. Tell her to back off or you will put the boots to her.
2006-07-20 11:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just think about what is more important...your friendship, or this guy? If its your firendship, then forget about the guy. If its the guy, then let her know how you feel about the situation.
2006-07-20 11:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by xxjoanna_maexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋