He tells me he loves me and that he wants to be with me. But then he insults me, talks about the past and bu...**** like that. We all make mistakes,
he did his thing and I forgave, I don't forget but I dont mention it every other day. I i'm tired of this, what can I do.
2006-07-20 11:13:34 · 37 answers · asked by shygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because he is young.
Don't do anything that could be permanent like get an STP or make a baby. People come and go, you learn from a bunch of them before you know enough to commit to someone who is serious. The young can't tell the difference between feelings and commitments.
Don't judge too quickly. Be patient.
2006-07-20 11:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by n0witrytobeamused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the general answer to your question lies in the type on person you choose to date. You need to wake up and stop going after a guy because "he's so hot". Why do you think the divorce rate is as high as it is in this country? I'm also going to take a stab in the dark and say you are probably only 18-19 years old. you need to be spending your time going to school and working to support your self instead of trying to become the next "baby mama"
And for the record not all guys are liars, just the ones you attracted to.
Not trying to be mean just honest, or maybe I've been watching to much Dr. Phil. :-)
2006-07-20 11:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Scott M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women let them be-For your personal situation it sounds like there are some unresolved issues about somethings you did (my guess cheating) and he is not willing to forgive. He cheated too and you say you forgave him. OK so this sounds like an unhealthy relationship at best. Maybe he is realizing it. What do you mean we all make mistakes. We are not all cheaters dear. What is the plan you both continue cheating and forgiving each other until someone dies from AIDS probably not a good idea.
2006-07-20 11:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have to know what kind of man he is you can not judge him like that call him a liar. it is not because he always wants to talk about the past and bu**** like that you have to be mad at him for that Girl you have to tolerate the bad and love the good think about your special time together, do not let the petty stuff argue you and do not argue about them either, if one day he wants to talk about that just change the topic or the subject ok girl, tell him how do you love him, that he means to you that he would never know.
2006-07-20 11:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by BERJEAFRIJUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you tolerate it thats why. You choose to believe his words instead of his actions so what more can you expect? He says he loves you and then treats you like crap....ummm on your list of what loves looks and feels like what number is being insulted? oh it isn't there, how about being lied to? thats not there either? well then perhaps this isn't love after all. you can get yourself out of what is obviously NOT a loving realtionship and find something better. why waste anymore time on something you know isn't what its claiming to be? If you had an elephant in your front yard but it SAID it was a kitty cat would you believe its a kitty cat or call the zoo about their escaped elephant? what i'm saying is deal with the REALITY of what it is, not the IDEA of what you would like it to be. good luck to you!
2006-07-20 11:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you realy forgave him and has he done likewise
sounds to me like you both have the same issuses
the past is the past. try to start from now
yesterday is gone tomorrow is't here
quit pissing all over today
if you forgive it's forgotten not brougth latter for amuntion
kill the problem and leave it dead
if you and he can't then, it's time to move on
he said she said bull@$^% don't have room
in this world today live the fighting to the pro's
thankyou good luck
2006-07-20 11:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by matt m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t think it`s so much they are anymore of a liar than women,but they are definately more afraid of commitment and getting too close to soon,and it freaks them out to the point they will come up with some hellish trips to take you through if your not aware of what they are doing and why.
2006-07-20 11:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by aminuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't. apparently you're purely stressed out to attraction to liars. Do you %. up adult males from the bar or from college? in case you meet all of your adult males at bars, do not whinge that they are jerks. Have some self comprehend and also you will get comprehend.
2016-12-02 00:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by braye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't any worse liars than women...but to deal with your bf issue:
Tell him that his behavior is unacceptable and you have no desire to be with someone who would speak to and treat you that way. If he continues, then let him go and move on with your life...
...this life is too short to be with someone and unhappy...you can be happy on your own or be out there where opportunities to meet someone who is a better match will come your way...don't waste time on someone who's not going to treat you as you should be treated...don't settle...
2006-07-20 11:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many great guys out there, dump him!!!!
If you are already this rocky, how would it be if you were married, cause it's not easy ya know?
And add kids into that equation, you'd be totally doomed, (if you want em'), all I'm saying is start off fresh and new!
2006-07-20 11:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋