when do u know if she's the rigth women for u to marry?

Answer 1

when you can see her growing old with you

Answer 2

When you have been together long enough to be out of the infatuation stage. When you have discussed ALL the issues involved in life after the wedding like finances, division of household labor, children, in laws, where to live, jobs, time away with friends, and a million other things you haven't thought of. After all of that you consider each part of the vows, and what you consider is the difficult side of them, anybody can be happy when things are going well so,

richer or poorer....still want to be with her in a shack with crackers ala peanut butter for dinner?

sickness and health...she develops a chronic physical or mental illness and can't get around and can't work, still want to be with her?

better or worse...she's in a car accident and you have to spend the rest of your life feeding her and changing her diapers, still want to be married?

keep yourself only to her, can you REALLY only have sex with only her until you die, even if she only wants it once a month?

THIS is what marriage is, not a fairy tale where everything goes well everyday, the one guarantee you have is that things WILL go wrong. Remember, you answer all these questions after you have passed infatuation, after you know what her bad points are (yes she has some and so do you) and still consider it anyway.

If you think you are up for all of this then maybe you should think about it.

Answer 3

You genuinely want to share the rest of your life with this person. Every minute you spend together is worthwhile. You always have interesting things to talk about. You don't fight often. You love and respect each other the way you are.

Answer 4

Look into the future. Where do you see yourself? Do you see her with you? Why or Why not? Does it make you happy or sad that she is or isn't there? Think about another ex-girlfriend and your future self. Is the feeling the same or different? If it's the same, give it time. If it's different, she is the one. It's all in self and couple reflection.

Answer 5

when u don't care that she's talkin to another guy cause u know with all your heart that her heart is with u.
when u can trust her to go with a "guy friend" somewhere and not have doubts.
when you can let her out of your site and know that she has no
intentions of bein with someone else.
when u know u r the center of her world even if she doesn't say so, whether she is with or without u at the moment.

Answer 6

When you feel that you could be broke together, but still happy; you want to raise kids together with the same goals and attitudes; you feel you would be there for her if she gained 100 pounds, got sick, or needed health care; and you really, really LIKE her, not just love her.

Answer 7

When you can picture EVRYday for the rest of your life you see that person and you have absoutly NO attraction to anyone else or thats the way i look at it

Answer 8

Can you see yourself with this woman for the rest of your life?? 365 days of the year for the next 50-60 years??? Her and ONLY her? If you can, and you truely love her and she truely loves you ..... you got yourself a keeper.

Answer 9

That, my good friend, you will only know after being with her for at least 10 years!
It helps if she is rich and beautiful!

Answer 10

See how she treats her family. That's how she will treat you. See how your family feels about her. Remember, she will be the mother of your children so you want someone with good moral character.

Answer 11

when you dont look at other girls becouse she is all you want to look at, you hate being with out her, and when your at work, you cant wait to get off just to be with her. she makes you want to call in. you cant get enough of her even when shes in your arms. you live, breath, sleep, speak, think her all the time. she is all about you.